Thursday, March 18, 2010

Mid- March Realization

I heard some devastating news today.

Sandra Bullock- one of the few actresses I genuinely love even though I don't know her... of the beautiful smile and the charming personality and generally amazing spirit.
Sandra Bullock of Miss Congeniality and Everybody loves steve and THE BLIND SIDE.. and well that movie with HUGH GRANT.. I think it was called TWO WEEKS.

Her husband cheated!!

What I got from the entire sordid affair... too many details of which aren't exactly clear... is...
the people who aren't good enough for you... JUST AREN'T.

You can choose to love them either way... make do... forget even... but the fact remains.

The sad part is most of them know it too... and resent it... and sometimes... eventually you.

They resent the conversations they can't hold with your peers...
They resent themselves for falling short...
Then they resent themselves for even caring about it.
BUT THE FACT REMAINS!!!

Some of them try to overcompensate... or undermine ... or control...
or with other women...

Its sickening... its sad... and sometimes it makes me mad.
AND THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THAT