Wednesday, March 07, 2007

Life in a song

I was listening to the radio last night and a young man called in. He told the radio host about a girl he loved with all his heart and had spent the past 4 years trying to tell. He watched her get dumped time and time again and kept begging her for a chance just to show her how good she made him feel inside. He wanted to make her smile… to make her happy… but she wouldn’t let him.


The radio host played him a song called “I can’t make you love me” by Bonnie Rait. The lyrics of the song made me cry… they were so beautiful and expressed the pain of unrequited love… something most of us have been through once or twice in our lives…


Listening to that song made me realize that at every given point in my life… the good and the bad… there’s always been a song or two that captures what I feel… or my mood. Sometimes the songs don’t have much to do with what I’m feeling… but I just happened to listen to it a lot when I was going through a particular experience… so for that reason… anytime I hear it… it reminds me of a time, place or person… and some songs just elicit a very strong emotional response.


“At seventeen by Janis Ian”…
I heard this song for the first time last week and I’ve cried every single time I play it… I want to stop listening cos it hurts… but I can’t seem to stop myself… it’s on instant replay.



Ms. Ian sings the lyrics of a certain part of my life: “I knew the truth at seventeen that love was meant for beauty queens and high school girls with clear skin smiles… and those of us with ravaged faces lacking in the social graces desperately remained at home… remember those who win the game loose the love they sought to gain… to those of us who numb the pain… and those whose names were never called when choosing sides for basketball… and dreams were all they gave for free to ugly duckling girls like me… ”


I never thought myself ugly but I never thought myself particularly beautiful either. It was never really about my physical features… I didn’t really have any eyebrows, maybe my nose was a bit wide as my face was round… but I guess I had a nice/pleasant enough face, I didn’t have a big butt to speak of… or a flat tummy… and didn’t particularly love my big hands or feet but I had a passable body. None of that particularly pleased or bothered me… none of it was a compliment or insult to me… it was how my creator had seen fit to make me. The part that bothered me was the inside… I felt horribly ugly inside. I always felt not good enough… I mean I strived to be the best at the things I did but I still never felt good enough. I felt worthless… as though no matter what I did… I’d only amount to so much… that my fate was predetermined… was cursed… limited…


I felt like a fraud everytime someone called me pretty or beautiful because that wasn’t how I felt… I felt dead inside… and I knew after a little while they’d be able to see it too… they’d look into my eyes and know the outside was a farce… I was a mess, I was scared, I was angry, I was hurt, I was numb…

Perhaps my face wasn’t ravaged but I felt ravaged deep within and I knew that was worse… a pain that I haven’t completely lost… I laughed and joked and danced with them but a part of me was always outside looking in cos that wasn’t my life… my life was that of fear when love came in slaps and whips… there was nothing to numb the pain… I kept it all inside and it ate at me every single day…


I tried to reject every good thing that came my way because I almost felt I didn’t deserve it… I wanted to hurt them before they hurt me cos I knew that was what people did… they hurt you… they left you… they moved you… they destroyed you…


‘…and dreams were all they gave for free to ugly duckling girls just like me’…

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Kafo said...

I felt like a fraud everytime someone called me pretty or beautiful because that wasn’t how I felt…


I feel you

Kafo said...

I just listened to the song

Brown girl in hand-mii-downs whose name I never could pronounce... they only get what they deserve

Those who win the game lose the love they sought to gain

Valentines never came
Choosing sides for basketball

MERCY
two words
depressing nostalgic
or
nostalgically depressing

anywayz it reminds mii of high school

Nyemoni said...

YAY!!! You're back.... lemme go read!

Nyemoni said...

Nice post gal, I know how it felt to be young and unsure... I always wanted to be my best; look my best! It was all a question of peer pressure to me 'cos everyone wanted to STAND out! By the time I got to Uni, I had graduated to an "I no send" mode... LOL.. the Faculty of Science was not a day's job and I was in a particularly difficult department... I really couldn't care less most days. Now, I've sorta grown into my skin and I like what I see.. I'm not perfect but I think I am a Queen! Lol!

Naija Sapphire said...

For me it was different. Me and my self image issues had continued to be caged until i allowed them to go and i really haven't succeeded in that, either but I guess I'm gonna have to work on those though. But I understand what you saying.

Anonymous said...

RUBBISH..STORY STORY

Overwhelmed Naija Babe said...

@Kafo: Isn’t that song just beautiful and poignant… I mean that performance was in 1976 but the song is still relevant… it’s funny too cos I watched the video and Janis Ian is an obviously beautiful woman… it’s amazing the way we perceive ourselves sometimes isn’t it? First prize: Leather winter gloves cos its freezing like a mother out here forreal… my teeth were chattering like crazy when I got in today!

@Nyemoni: I understand exactly what you’re saying… but mine wasn’t a matter of being ‘physically unsure’… it was more an emotional thing… but I’m learning and getting better with each passing day.

@Naija Sapphire: Here’s to finally figuring it all out… Cheers babe

Anonymous said...

God overwhelmed,adanma,adanma,adanma,how many times did i call u?
ur name should be charlotte..cus like the spider u spin them fukin tales...and u do it so smart.
u think coming from an emotional angle will make me pity you??

im outing your arse by the end of the day.
everything.even if i have to start my own blog and tell my side of everything.

Uzo said...

I love Bonni Raitt's - I cant make you love me especially the version done by one of my favorite artistes - Will Downing. I really love this post because i think it captures what a lot of women feel/have felt at some point or the other.

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Nyemoni said...

Man, is there no way of stopn this anonymous? Leave this girl alone whether she's adaugo or adanma or adanwanyi or adaeze please let her be. Even if she spins tales let her be. Wetin? Did she mention anyones name? Biko leave her for us whether or not she is telling lies or not, this is just a blog!

I for one don't care, all I know is when am less busy at work, I read her blog cos - face it - she's gifted with the gift of writing. Leave her for me o! Leave my ONB to discover herself. Please act like a chic you are and let the girl be.

As she stated in her profile........"I’m hoping to use this blogging experience as my therapy. I want to use the power of the written word to explore and really listen to my inner voice. I need closure on a lot of issues in my past, so I can look forward to and completely embrace my future..."

This whole blog-stalking thing has gone too far and it's beginning to make me sick. I cannot continue to pretend that I don't see it..I am putting my name up because this is what I stand for. This is seriously unfair... speaking to you as one girl to another, let's all act mature and really just chill out for Pete's sakeeee!

Naijadude said...

Overwhelmed, I doubt if I can come back here again and realise anonymous is not disabled.. *if u dont know how let me tell you *
Anonymous is disgusting and annoying!!

Have a good day

Waffarian said...

Nyemoni, you are so right, this is something else!

Anonymous,the funny thing is even if you "out" her, what would that mean to me or the others that read this blog? First of all, we do not reside in "Adanma"'s country so are you going to be giving us gist of somebody we don't know? It will be like "this person is so and so, she has done so and so" what the fuck will that mean to me? nothing! if her name is Adanma or Overwhelmednaijababe, it does not mean jack shit to me. Instead of posting comments on this blog, why don't you just talk to her (if you know who she is)cos you "outing" her here does not accomplish anything. Since the whole point is to out "her" then do that for the people that know what you are talking about cos most of us that read this blog have no associations with her personally hence the "outing" will fail to accomplish its purpose.

Vanilla said...

ONG - good post. Keep writing. You are doing it for you, not for anyone else.

Have a nice day

Omohemi Benson said...

I feel for youngman that can not have the lady he loves but life is not fair and so is love.

I feel on the song.
The song I'm feeling right now describing my phase in life right now is Natasha bedinfield's single.

Good post.

Ubong Da said...

hmm ... Ubong pulls a stool, calls Mama Ngozi to bring the plate of 404 pepper soup and a chilled bottle of Gulder, while awaiting the return of Bhola alias Voltron. The saga continues........

Anonymous said...

@commenters. why are you guys taking sides now. i use to be a fan of anon but this is getting personal so am taking no one side this time. i know am an amebo but am still intrested in the truth.

@ownb i dont understand you ohhhhhh. in your previous post "I KNOW" it seems like you knew this person. i guess its not what you think now. becuase you're now saying the person dosent know you form eve or adam. am starting to doubt you due to your inconsistency.and does adanma ring a bell to you.

@anon where are you going with this.am starting to get anxious but i still love you. why not start a blog. trust me ownb will loose her rating in one day.even the haters will come read.

@commeners: i know you guys will want to say something about me taking side. face it you like this anon thats why you guys keep comming back. how boring do you think you comment would be without anon. he is an investment to this blog. ownb pls tell them to stop defending you. you get your own mouth.

Soul said...

ahhh aburo.. exactly

Young Miss Williams said...

I feel you on the whole music thing...

When it comes to the beauty issue remember that the way you see you and the way others see you is different so just because you may not appreciate certain things about the way you look don't mean someone else won't find that beautiful.

x mwah x

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

i hear uu i hear u i hear u oooo!


(and definitely second ma future hubby (naijadude)'s motion... )

Anonymous said...

I really feel you on this one. For most people it gets better as you grow older. I'm in my early 30s but I finally grew into my own skin fully in my early 20s(and just like you it was more emotional than physical cos a lot of people thought I was pretty).
I think it's a universal experience. Cheers to self love!!!

Anonymous said...

@ownb. this is so intresting. based on the time difference between each comments it seems someone is always reading your blog every one minute.now you have a full time job.special thanks to anon. he made this happen.

and for those on blogsville please anon deserve an award this year.

Kpakpando said...

I think most if not all women go throug the same feelings of not being beautiful,regardless of their actual beauty. My theory is that its the work of the devil, he knows that a woman who is sure of herself in every aspect can change nations; so he attacks them when they're young and in their minds where nobody can "help" them. He's just a thief that way, even the prettiest girl will feel like men will only like her because of sex and she isn't worthy of actual love. So she presents herself as a sexual object only and never for the full intelligent human being she is. Some women are lucky to grow out of it, others go into their thirties, forties and fifties as empty shells of who they actually are.
Anyways, I love real music (not that snap your fingers to the wall shit) it can frame our thoughts and feelings beautifully.

chainreader said...

I love that song, "i can't make you love me". It's so sad. Doesn't make me cry, though.

Hope your day is beautiful.

Anonymous said...

@ overwhelmed: you sound pretty subdued i think our comments in the last post have truly 'overwhelmed' you. I know i said we the ANONS are the Champions, however i would like to dissociate myself from the anon who claims he/she knows you. I have to admit here that i think the person went too far and very personal. My comments were never personal as i do not know you from adam. I only make comments in relation to your posts and as i said in my prior posts i believe you like a twist to your tale and exaggerate the truth a little, however i still find your blog terribly interesting. My comments were just a bit of fun and nothing personal; i enjoyed the exchange that showed your fiery character. But i still know were to draw the line - i think my fellow anon who's bent on 'outing' you has crossed that line. I hope whoever they are is telling tales and doing the same thing they accuse you of doing, if that is not the case then i'd suggest you consider barring anonymous comments (even though i've dared you to in my previous post). I say so becos i'm a fair person and i don't want to be a member of a 'pack' that is seen to engage in such senseless bullying.
Can i suggest to you also that this person could be closer to home? I said in my previous post that your enemy is closer than you think. I actually suspect that this could be the handiwork of DIARYOFAMADSOULFUL - OF SHIT -SISTA (you can tell she's not my favourite person)as i said her posts wreak of low self esteem and she actually sounds like she might be envious of you and it's not a coincidence that you both know each other. I doubt the rest of your blog family know you personally as she does.

PS; i just hope you both are not in on it and having a right laugh at the rest of us becos that will be sickening. I doubt it very much though. Take care of yourself and remain wonderfully blessed with your writing skills. You definitely are a winneer all the way... but it doesn't mean i would not criticise you where necessary lol!!! Enjoy!!!

Anonymous said...

@anon who just commented. i agree with you 100%.am with you on this.you are the reason i read this blog

@ownb i have a feeling you have something to do with all this drama. but i hope not.and if so it really shows you do have a broad mind. more power to your elbows. but keep posting.

@meanspiritedanon said...

I agree with all the above comments. ONB seems to calm. I have a feeling she might have created this drama. If you did more grease to your elbow. Great imagination. I am glued to your blog! this girl you are good!

Anonymous said...

OKAY EVERYONE..LET ME GIVE U A BRIEF RUNDOWN OF WHAT HAPPENED.IM THE ANON WHO SAID SHE WAS GONNA OUT OVERWHELMED.
AND THERE IS A REASON WHY.

I WAS GONNA OUT HER FAMILY "LIES" THAT SHE SPINS ON HERE AT FIRST.BUT I THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND REALISED THAT ITS BEST TO LEAVE HER TO HER CONSCIENCE.ONE DAY SHE WILL HAVE KIDS TOO.

SHE IS NOT MY COUSIN,BUT AN EX FRIEND OF MINE.
WHEN I KNEW SHE WAS GONA START THE BLOG AND I ASKED THE BITCH WAT SHE WAS GONNA WRITE ABOUT,SHE TOLD ME A LOT ESPECIALLY GROWING UP.

OWNB HAS A LOT OF ISSUES,AND I REMEMBER TELLING HER THAT WHATEVER SHE DOES SHE SHOULDNT AS USUAL MAKE HER DADDY,UNCLE AS I CALL HIM OUT TO BE THE MONSTER THAT THEY HAVE BEEN FED TO BELIEVE.

WE LIVED TOGETHER,SO I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT,AND I KNOW HOW OWNB AND HER SISTER HAD BEEN BRAINWASHED.

AND I TOLD HER THAT,ITS A SMALL WORLD THAT HER DADDY MIGHT ONE DAY COME ACROSS THE BLOG AND IT WOULD HURT HIM IF HE EVER FOUND OUT ANYTHING NEGATIVE HIS DAUGHTER THAT HE REALLY LOVED HAD WRITTEN.

OVERWHELMED TOLD ME THAT IT WAS ALL FOR FUN,AND "SHE DOESNT GIVE A FUK ABOUT THE BASTARD".

THIS IS A MAN,WHO HAS LITERALLY PAID HER WAY THROUGH LIFE B4 HER "MUMMY"(AND I USE THE TERM LOOSELY) CAME INTO HER LIFE.

OVERWHELMED,CAN U DENY ALL THOSE DAYS THAT UNCLE WOULD BATHE YOU,DRESS YOU,AND MAKE SURE YOU HAD EVERYTHING IN LIFE AND NOT MISS YOUR MUM??

HOW DARE YOU IN FACT?
I SHOWED MY MUM YOUR BLOG AND SHE WAS IN PIECES.AND SHE SAID U WILL GET YOUR OWN PILL FROM YOUR KIDS.

I WILL LEAVE YOU ON YOUR DADDYS ISSUE.I LEAVE YOU TO YOUR CONSCIENCE.

AFTER I READ HER FIRST POST ABOUT HOW HORRIBLE HER DAD WAS,I WAS SHOCKED,AND I CALLED HER UP ON IT.

SHE CRIED AND TALKED TRASH THAT SHE COULDNT HELP IT.

THIS IS A GIRL WHO HAD A KLEPTO PROBLEM IN SECONDARY SCHOOL,AND HER LOVING FATHER TOOK HER FOR THERAPY.CAN U IMAGINE THE EMBARASSMENT OF KNOWING THAT YOUR OWN DAUGHTER STEALS?YET HE WAS NICE ENOUGH TO PAY FOR THE BEST CARE?
YET OVERWHELMEDS MUM WOULD STILL BE GETTING IN TOUCH AND POISONING THEIR MINDS AGAINST THEIR DAD,YET SHE COULDNT SIT AND BE A MUM??

DAMN U OVERWHELMED...U TRY ALL BECAUSE YOU WANA GET POINTS ON A BLOG??

OGA OH..

ANYWAY BACK TO THE YELLOW PAWPAW SCENE


OVERWHELMED AND ANOTHER FRIEND OF OURS WAS GISTING A FEW WEEKS BACK.AND SINCE MYSELF AND OVERWHELMED ARDLY TALK ANYMORE,THE OTHER FRIEND HAS ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THE INBETWEEN.WHICH SAVES A LOT OF AKWARD MOMENTS.

ANYWAY..TEH OTHER FRIEND(ALSO A BLOGGER)TOLD ME THAT OVERWHELMED WANTED TO START ANOTHER BLOG AND THAT SHE WAS GONNA USE IT AS A TEST DRIVE FOR HER DESIRE TO WRITE A BOOK.
SEE HOW PEOPLE REACT TO IT ETC.

I WAS JUST LIKE,WELL GOOD LUCK TO HER.

THEN THE FRIEND TOLD ME THAT THE PROBLEM WAS THAT OVERWHELMED WAS GONNA BASE SOME PARTS OF IT ON THE LIVES OF A GIRL IN LAGOS THAT OVERHWELMED HAD ALWAYS HAD BEEF WITH.AND SHE WAS GOING TO CREATE OTHER CHARACTERS TO GO WITH IT.

THE MIXED RACE GIRL THAT OVERWHELMED BASED HER STORY ABOUT IS THE SISTER OF HER FIRST BOYFRIEND WHO DISVIRGINED HER,BUT THE GIRL WAS THE ONE WHO SAW OVERWHELMED IN CANADA KISSING SOMEONE ELSE WHEN SHE CAME ON HOLIDAY.LONG STORY CANT GO INTO DETAILS.BUT SINCE THEN OVERWHELMED HAD ALWAYS HATED THE GIRL.

THING IS THOSE THAT KNOW THE GIRL KNOW THAT SHE IS NOT THE LOSE CHARACTER THAT OVERWHELMED HAS MADE HER OUT TO BE..AND SHE DID NOT SLEEP WITH HER HALF BROTHER.

THAT WAS WHY I GOT ANGRY ON THE YELLOW PAW PAW BLOG BECAUSE OVERWHELMED DUE TO HER SLEFISH INTERESTS SPINNED A WHOLE LIE OUT OF SOMEONE ELSES LIFE.AND SAID AN INNOCENT GIRL SLEPT WITH HER OWN BROTHER.

WHEN MY OTHER FRIEND TOLD ME,I SAID,OWNB HAS TO BE JOKING THAT I KNOW SHE IS VINDICTIVE,BUT CANNOT BE THAT BAD!!

THE OTHER GIRL WHO IS A WELL KNOWN COMMENTATOR ON OWNBS BLOG SAID "WHATEVER FLOATS OWNBS BOAT".

BUT THAT WE SHOULD WARN THE OTHER GIRL IN LAGOS.BECAUSE THOSE THAT KNWO WILL KNOW,AND WILL THINK THAT ITS TRUE THAT SHE STARTED A BLOG LIKE THAT,OR THAT HER SO CALLED FRIENDS AND HER WERE UP TO SUCH SHIT.

ALL THE FRIENDS,EJECTOR,TINY ETC DONT EXIST.

3 NIGHTS AGO,I TRIED DOING THE MATURE THING AND CALLED OWNB TO TALK,THAT BABES,DONT YOU THINK U HAVE GONE TOO FAR??

DO U KNOW WHAT SHE SAID??

SHE SAID CONTROVERSY SELLS AND IF SOMEONE HAS TO HAVE A RUINED REPUTATION,THEN SO BE IT.

I CANT MENTION THE NAME OF THE GIRL SHE LOOSELY BASED HER YELLOW PAW PAW ON.
SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WANTS TO SEE HOW PEOPLE REACT TO NAIJA EROTICA WITH A FEW RANDOM HALF TRUTHS THROWN IN.

TEH ONLY TRUTH ABOUT THE YELLOW PAW PAW BLOG IS THAT THERE IS A MIXED RACE GIRL THAT OWNB HATES WITH A PASSION.

THATS ALL.

wondering anon said...

Odiegu oooooohhhh!!! Infact i cannot comment again; overwhelmed ngwanu over to you - IS THIS TRUE???

londonnaijachic said...

nice song.Hits home to me!

Anonymous said...

SHOCKEDANON;yeparipa,i KNEW something wasnt quite right.so i guess im not mad afterall for questioning the ywllow pawpaw blog.
OVERWELMED.please what is going on now?
u seem a bit subdued lately.
is this true?
if it is,SHAME ON YOU.if not then ANON WHO POSTED,U NEED SERIOUS HELP.
but overwhelmed this is bad o.did u really plan this?

@meanspiritedanon said...

Pls start your own blog girl.you will generate more hits than ONB. pls I am begging you. I dont know if what you said is true but I know this.
If ONB did not like attention and controversy
If she knew she had the potential to be exposed,
she would have blocked anonymous comments. she hasnt......
I dont know what to believe but i know ONB might be the person behind everything.
great job girl!! you keep me interested!

chicka said...

ok i gotta admit dis whole blog thing is really getting IRRITATING but INTERESTING by d minit. wats up wit dis whole madness? 2 d anonymous idiot...i still dont gyv a rat ass abt who u r cos d way u approached d whole situation was byond childish but den again i gtta admit dat dis last post seemed 2 b d only meaningful thng dat u hv eva written. meaningful in d sense dat i see where ur "anger" has been comin from but i dont kno u, neither do i kno d chick who owns dis blog BUT if evrythng u said was true den i feel u nd ownb have a lot of growing up 2 do....nd 2 overwhelmed, i kno i mentiond in my previous post dat u ignore d anonymous pple but a situation lyk dis i reallyyyy thnk u need 2 clear d air cos dis is byond "blogville", it hits really close 2 home
my 2 cents.

Anonymous said...

@CHICKA U MUST BE A FOOL..THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY.
DO U KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO SIT AND WATCH SOMEONE WRITE SO MUCH TRASH ABOUT HER LOVING FATHER?OVER WHAT?

MEN,ILL LEAVE U GUYS TO KEEP DRINKING UP HER LIES AND LICKING THE BITCHS ARSE.

AND YES,SHE DIDNT BLOCK OFF ANY ANON COMMENTS BECAUSE SHE IS AN ATTENTION WHORE..
CANT YOU READ DUMMY...SHE DID IT ALL FOR CONTROVERSY.

SHE LOVES IT..SHE THOUGHT I WOULDNT OUT HER...I LEFT OUT THE PART THAT SHE KEPT LEAVING INSULTIVE MESSAGES ON MY PHONE TELLING ME TO GO AHEAD..THAT AT LEAST IM DOING HER A FAVOUR ECAUSE SHE IS GETTING HITS AND SHE DOESNT CARE BECAUSE AT LEAST VERY FEW PEOPLE KNOW HER ON BLOGLAND.

AND FOR ALL YOUR INFO...SHE COMMENTS TO HERSELF ON THE COMMENT SECTIONS.
HOW SICK IS THAT??

THIS IS SOMEONE WHO INSULTED MY OWN DAD BECAUSE MY DAD SUGGESTED SHE GO INTO THERAPY.

MEN LONG STORY..

@ANON WHO WANTS ME TO START A BLOG.BELIEVE ME I WOULD LOVE TO...BUT I NEED TO KNOW WHAT ANGLE I WANNA WRITE FROM(I DONT WANNA BE SPINNING TALES NOW SHEY U GET)

wondering anon said...

@ anon who has outed overwhelmed: why did she insult your dad? did he abuse her too?
anyway i believe your story becos overwhelmed has been somewhat cool and not her usual hotheaded self. Her latest post is obviously a cry for help!!! I feel so sorry for her 'cos she herself has admitted that she has a 'jekyll and hyde' personality thing going. Overwhelmed whether what this anon is saying is true or not, i'll still suggest you seek some help cos you sound really SAD! I actually feel so sorry for you!

Nilla said...

"...there’s always been a song or two that captures what I feel..."
That goes for me too.

Have a wonderful rest of the day!

Vera Ezimora said...

The "At Seventeen" song is sadly true. *sobs*

By the way, it's wednesday; I have updated...and I wrote bout u! Don't feel special please.

nonbeliever said...

Jesus, take the wheel, all you outers and follow follows need serious holy ghost MFM deliverance. Even if you "know" OWNB, like you claim your stalking her all over the internet makes you the crazy and unstable one. This your "outing" is even dryer than the yellow pawpaws overused pussy. So internet sleuth try again. Typing in all caps doesn't make you more believable.

all you mugus feeding off/into this "drama" like symbiotic parasites, need to examine yourselves. The world is round for a reason, all you do comes back to you and nobody likes it when its them.

OWNB lack of addressing this shege doesn't prove anything but her maturity. I mean after all when you fight the crazy man walking naked, aren't you yourself crazy? At the end of the day, she had nothing to prove to anyone, it's her and her God that are in this shege together.

Anonymous said...

@NONBELIEVER...OVERWHELMED I KNOW ITS YOU,AND PLEASE QUIT LEAVING MESSAGES ON MY PHONE.I WILL NOT TAKE BACK WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN.

AT OTHER ANON,MY DAD DID NOT ABUSE THE FOOL OH.
HE KNEW AS WE ALL DO THAT SHE HAS ISSUES.MPD.AND HE SUGGESTED TO HER MUM THAT SHE SHOULD SEE SOMEONE.
MY DAD IS A PSYCHOLOGIST.

SHE AND HER MUM DISSED MY DAD BADLY.

wondering anon said...

Na true you talk Non beleiver - NOW TAKE YOUR NON BELIEVING ASS TO HELL WHERE IT BELONGS OLODO!!!

YELLOWPAWPAW said...

ANONYMOUS...I CANNOT BELIEVE U MADE SUCH A STORY UP...HOW DO I KNOW? BECAUSE YOU ARE A DIRTY LIAR... I AM ONE OF THE WRITERS OF YELLOW PAWPAW... AND I CANNOT BELIEVE U PEOPLE ARE HERE HARRASSING THIS INNOCENT GIRL ABOUT IT...AND SAYING ALL THE THINGS U SAID...COME ON....IM LAUGHIN HERE BECAUSE HOW CAN U FABRICATE SUCH A STORY AND SAY IT WITH SUCH CONVICTION..AND YET URE THE ONE THAT IS SO INSULTED ON ALL THESE BLOGS CALLIN PEOPLE LIARS..AND HERE U ARE SPEWING ALL THAT HATE AND LIES FROM YOUR DEVILISH LIPS...YOURE AN ANIMAL...
SERIOUSLY...I CANT BELIEVE IT..PLEASE ALLOW THE GIRL TO HAVE PEACE ON HER BLOG...DEMON!

Anonymous said...

its a lie !
do you think we are stupid? you are all the same people yellow pawpaw, non believer,ONB even anon might be ONB self.
its so easy to "choose an identity" in blogville.

Anonymous said...

if anyone is lying here they are going to die tomorrow

Anonymous said...

I cannot believe that you are all so CRAZY!! is she your president that you want to impeach her???? Shes a blogger...allow her to blog in peace...HOW DOES IT CHANGE UR LIFE WHO IS WRITING WHAT???!?!?!?! HOW CAN U DEMANNDDDDDDD THE TRUTH WITH ALL CONVICTION??
WHO ARE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!
SOME NIGERIANS BEHAVE LIKE A PACK OF MAD RABID DOGS...
IS THIS REALLY WHAT UR LIFE IS ABOUT? REPLYING EVERY 2 MINUTES TO BLOGS DEMANDING THAT THE WRITERS 'OUT' THEMSELVES???? CLOSE UR FUCKING EYES U LOSERS...PLEASE...
BEG BORROW OR STEAL A LIFE!

nonbeliever said...

@ stalkerazzi anon, nope sweerie u got it wrong, I'm not OWNB. You have proven how borderline psycho, if not full fledged, your ass actally is.I mean, in minutes you already had a reply up here. OWNB is picking her toe jam or filing her nails and you're here obsessed with the comments section of her blog. na wa for you life. IF YOUR POPSIE IS A PSYCHOLOGIST, DOESN'T HEKNOW CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME AND SHOULD START WITH YOU!!!!
see i typed in all CAPS too, shebi I'm more believable now.
as per follow, follow, who I now believe to be one in the same as stalkerazzi anon, u had better mind who you're calling olodo, no be your mama born me oh, u think say I be abiku like you abi. she ori e da ru? dem no born u well.

Olawunmi said...

i still don't get why people don't mind their own business.

if ONB really did make up all this stuff, who is she hurting but herself? If she makes her family out to be a bunch of sick degenerates, whose ox is gored but her own?

so why is it that people find it hard to mind their own business? these anonymous people are a bunch of cowardly wretches because they hide behind the cloak of invisibility to propagate their own petty agendas.

if she has nothing to hide, why be anonymous? if she's outing someone else, why not say her own real name and give objective observers the opportunity to confirm for themselves if there is any truth to her claims?

once more, we see lies, and faceless enemies throwing stones behind high walls.

you people deserve to die

Anonymous said...

this is getting to be too much...leave overwhelmed alone we actually dont really care if shes lying or not we enjoy her blog and we love reading from her. if u hate her so much leave her blog and stop reading.

-LTRG

wondering anon said...

Ok, i now believe that OWNB is both non believer and yellow pawpaw. You are truly sad. you think you silence is a sign of maturity? YOU LIE! You have been exposed and you are ashamed. Why didn't you display this level of maturity in your previous posts when you were running your mouth like gutter and your useless cronies urging you on and now they all pretend like they are saints and keep quiet like we the anons are being wicked!!!
To the anon who has exposed her; we thank you for exposing her and i know her friends are secretly leaving anonymous comments becos they believe you but are afraid to say so. It's such a great shame that you can live like this. GET SOME HELP OWNB!!!

Anonymous said...

@ olanwunmi you too talk english! dem talk say her real name na 'adanma' na im the girl shock finish. she no fit speak again. before ownb go fight fire with fire, but this one pass im power. Make una beg am to stop anonymous comments, but aunty no go gree, you know why? becos she get serious problems for im head... all of a sudden yellopawpaw they leave message wen e never leave before. if you compare OWNB style of writing with non believer and yellow pawpaw u go know say na one and the same person.

nonbeliever said...

wondering anon, let this be the last time I address u dumdum, i'm not OWNB, just tired of the fake BS drama that belongs on NR that u want to bring and infest blogville. Is it because u too can't "spin" stories of your own? is that why u a jelos? if u spent less time doing exposee laik say u be dateline, maybe your dumbass can find story of your own to spin. You have to examine why you're on here like a neutered dog in heat, salivating at any hint of a comment, trying to "discredit" someone who u supposedly know, abi she still your boyfriend? why is it paining u like so? Get off her left tit already, oloshi alakori.

I'm not internet voltron and I unlike u got shit to do, so let me do my thing and live my life, while you piss yours away on a comment section.

OWNB do ya thing chick, fuck these hoes

Anonymous said...

CYBER BULLIES

nonbeliever said...

@ anon

e jo I be proper Isale Eko chick, no come dey call me adanma anyhow, u dey smoke igbo abi na wetin? Writing styles my ass, because I'm here typing in English abi, they need to send u back to detective camp and douse you with holy water on your way out.

wondering anon said...

@ non believer: Overwhelmed; u've just proved my point as this is the retort expected from you. You can hide behind phoney names but you writing reveals your true identity - Is this how low you'll go? Please get help.

Favoured Girl said...

@Anon (Overwhelmed's Ex-friend): This is Blogspot. Everybody is allowed to start a blog and write whatever they want. If you've got a problem with Overwhelmed, please sort it out between yourselves. There is no need to come on her blog and write vile words about her or her family. If as you say, she has issues, it means she has enough on her plate to deal with. She doesn't need cyber-bullies to compound them. I don't think you have earned the right to come and insult her on her blog.

@Overwhelmed: It's time to enable comment moderation. There is so much hate flying around here.

Anonymous said...

lets create a forum where we can go and analyze all OWNB's posts..... i bet there will be only like 5 comments left.....poor her...she still cant work up the courage to block the anonymous comments......i find that really sad

chainreader said...

I wish we could go back to the days when there was less hating on this blog. Na wetin? This here is no bible, no court of law. She has not sworn to tell the truth, so even if she doesn't, she has broken no laws. Disagree with her all you want, but this, if you ask me, is going way overboard.

Ps, it's just a blog. Everyone repeat after me, " a blog, a blog, a blog". Now take three and a half deep breaths. Don't we all feel better now?

Anonymous said...

@favoured girl; i'm pretty sure you are one of the anons that have left comments here. don't pretend that if it's true that OWNB made all those stories up you wouldn't be shocked; because you sure hell will be. Don't patronise her you can tell she's loving all this as she believes it'll make her a star - SICK THRILL!!! She would have enabled comment moderation longest time before this whole thing turned into the fallacy that it has all become. SHE LOVES THE SICK ATTENTION AS SHE IS SICK!!!

Anonymous said...

@ANON (OWNB EX-FRIEND)..you are a much better human being than OWNB and all those who are senselessly cheering her on....

You know what would really be cool. If you outted OWNB to her dad and if he came here to leave a comment that for sure will cause her entire facade will come crumbling down!

wondering anon said...

@chainreader i agree with you, it's only a blog! but her blog has touched a lot of people's heart, people have 'wasted prayers' on her, cried etc because of the content of her blog; content which they believed to be true. Don't you think if overwhelmed was not such an attention seeking dimwit she could have put an end to this... but yet she fuels the controversy by adopting phony names and creating phoney blogs. for those of you who think using an alias is a sort of revelation of who you r... well i reserve my comments

AbujaBabe said...

I love Blogging and love reading peoples Blogs and leaving comments.... But realy people where do you draw the line.. live and let live..how old are you alll really!!
It's just a Blog for God Sake!!!!.. surely there has to be more to life!!!

GET A LIFE!!!!

ceecy29 said...

I can see if the aim of all this outing is to get her to stop abusing her dad (if what you say is true), but your focus seems to lie in reducing the amount of comments she gets. I mean for real??? Is that what your dad suggested as therapy for her?

So favored girl and the rest of us will be shocked if we find out she made up all these stories. What next? And so? Unless we're going to die from the shock, I don't see a problem.

I think you should sit down and evaluate your strategy. Are you getting anyhwere with this your outing process. What end result do you seek? If you can answer these effectively, then please go ahead. If not, PLEASE STOP CLUTTERING THE COMMENTS section, and putting us non-bloggers at risk of "non-commentability".

Thank you.

Anonymous said...

@ANON (OWNB EX-FRIEND)..I forgot to add..it's a wonder why OWNB hasn't been able to complete the story of how she and fire escaped from their dad..i'm sure she's cooking up something in that her overwhelmed brain. lol!

Anonymous said...

abujababe; mechiounu na ba! if you no like this one commot for here go read another one. Na for blog room u wan draw line eh! make u no go focus on the madness wen dey happen for your country btw ur president and vice president. Na one insignificant humanbeing wen dey call imself overwhelmed you dey draw line for ... person wey no get shame... ABEG COMMOT 4 HERE OSISO OSISO!!! ABUJA WINSH!

bhookey84 said...

I SECOND CEECY29 :)

Anonymous said...

na only escape from im apa? una no see hoe the girl they claim say im mama wan snatch dem and 4 bodyguards and im aunty stop am? like say im mama na the next genevieve or omotola. 4 bodyguard for village? how ur mama get liver reach ur village wen u talk say ur papa drive am commot una house for lagos - so na ur papa come give ur mama the address for village? apart from dat if ur mama get sense sef, she no know say una dey go school or una 'bodyguard' dey follow una go school for village? see prized possession oh! foolish pikin like you! I spit on your lying blog 3 times. AKPA ASI

tiwalade said...

My goodness! this drama is unbelievable! These anon people are just out to get ONB!

Abeg ONB let the haters hate! I don't know if whatever there saying is true and truth is I dont even care cuz it's not my bizness if u're adanma or chinedu as far as I know you u're ONB and dat said of u I like.

Anon peeps dis is not d place to be doing this, u think u sound self righteous and indignant...u don't. You just sound full of spite and very immature.whateva ur issues r wiv ONB...dis is so not the place to discuss it!

Anonymous said...

@tiwalade: and who made you judge and jury? carry ur ass kissing yorubas ass out of here!!! OLOSHI IRANU

tiwalade said...

Back to the post

That song by janis Ian is so freakin sad! Although I can't really relate to the song....I feel the pain in it and it's so sad that people actually go through all that.

wondering anon said...

@tiwalade: na who teash you english? you for write 'self righteous' and 'indignant' for yoruba as i think it would have been more appropriate... OMO ALATA LIKE YOU!!!

bhookey84 said...

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Kpakpando said...

Hey anonymous and friends, ok you have outed her, u want Cabin biscuit abi na eclairs? Has that increased the zeroes in your bank account? or has it given you straight A's on your report card? or abi now God will give you first class flight to heaven with holy champagne because of it?
Its so sad that a girl would choose to try to cut another woman down conveniently shrouded in the anonymity the internet provides, how very BOLD. It only speaks to her/their insecurity and its just sad how we women continue to tear each other down, as if the world isn't already hard at work tearing us down. Clap for yourself kpa kpa kpakpakpa kpa! Again again.

Wait, wait, I know my writing style means I'm ONB let me save u the keystrokes

Favoured Girl said...
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Neo-Soul said...

All I can say is....WHOA to bloggin'! Is there any where Nigerians can come together and there not be drama???

Anonymous said...

You know what neo-soul, I was just thinking the very same thing...

Anonymous said...

@ kpakpando: c'mon that was too easy and predictable....

@ favoured girl; your papa name you favoured girl? you really think with a name like that you are so not anonymous! The irony of life is so glaring...

Anonymous said...

this is intresting. i still think ownb is sick.
@ownb--- where are you hiding. why have you not made a comment. this is simple. she is the same person that started this drama and if she is not then it means anon has an atom of truth in his/her story and owerwhelemed is scared to shut the page down because it will confirm everyones doubt. some part of me believe this is you and some part says you are a lying bitch. but all the same you need help.

and for those defending her i have said it once. she get her mouth. why is she silent now. pls we need to settle this one oh. can everyone met at hilton.
@ownb and anon--- i think this is the same person because if not you would have posted a pic if you were that close to her. you are really driving me in sane because am tired of playing detective. but i will keep reading to see where this end.

but for the main time ownb needs to seek help.we all know that.and remeber all the abuse is on you ownb if you are the same person and this makes you sick.....

wondering anon said...

infact, can i suggest that the anon who 'outed' overwhelmed should go ahead and state her full name and where possible her telephone number and her address in canada - ok, that's taking it a bit too far... but we need to get to the bottom of this...

to the rest of you supporters of OWNB see how double standard is killing you guys eh? - when overwhelmed was writing posts with all her colourful language all of you were opening teeth like malu. Now you come here talking about cyber bullying ehn! OWNB is laughing her butt off in one corner enjoying the drama and i bet the rest of you are doing same, even me sef (some of these comments too funny)! stop trying to make her feel like a victim becos she ain't. Nonsense and conconbility!!!

Adeyinka said...

So how is this saga going to end?

1) The anonymous haters will bugger off and leave blogville

2) Overwhelmed will shut down her blog (or if the gist is to be believed, BOTH blogs)

3) The anonymous person reveals ALL, including her name, email address and phone number if she dares.

4) Overwhelmed replies and gives us interested observers the full gist

bibi said...

wow...so much drama in blogville...this is a blog and everyone has a right to write what they feel.....but if you come here and make people believe ur false stories...then its sorta wrong...

i knew the yellow paw paw's stories were false the 1st time i read it...just didnt add up...but who cares...if anyone feels they want to bring their fantasies to the internet then thats their problem..u could read right thru the author...

ownb this is the best time to defend urself....

blogging is meant to be fun....a

emem said...

OWNB..u are so predictable.how come its when u were rumbled that you now decided to update on the yellow pawpaw blog??
u are sick in the head and twisted,playing sick mind games for your own selfish interest.
i knew from the start something wasnt quite riht with the pawpaw blog because u fiercely defended "them" and you were alos the only one that was given props out of all the morons supporting them.WHY???
simple,i conclude its because u are one and the same person.
its very sad though.very very sad.

Anonymous said...

@anon you said you were her ex-friend why are you taking her family life so personal. whats your business if she is lying or not.which kind friend be this. this makes me believe its the one and only ownb. nawa for you ooooo.

this just dosent add up. no one can fool me. this babe sick oooo. if i am right you once said in a previous post that you were told about this blog or did you say you stumble across it? now you are saying ownb told you about it and said it was for fun. why did you wait this long to say something? why did you start by acting like this blog was a suprise to you? you knew about it afterall. ownb you are not as smart as i think or should i say anon.
you story dosent add up. ownb and anon are both sick.they think they are playing on our mind. am smarter than that.i guess you did not know what you started would lead to this thats why you are trying to make things up. but the more lies you come up with the more unbelivable you sound.ashiri e ti tu. as for me you page is now a joke to me.

for those taking sides na weree you de support. this girl needs help for real.

Anonymous said...

Una don kill me finish... I just dey laugh i no fit talk again. OWNB YOUR YANSH DON OPEN FINISH! GEDDIT U R A FUCKING JOKE! IT'S ALL OVER FOR YOU BIANSHHHH!!!

Anonymous said...

@readers/supporters---- i am the detective here if you guys cant connect the stories
firstly, anon left this comment on "kimor". i Quote:

"I AM TELLING YOU I KNOW SOMEONE REACH HOME SEF...SOMEONE DIRECTED ME TO HER BLOG.AND I COULDNT BELIEVE THAT ITS THE SAME BITCH.NEVER LEFT HER LYING WAYS.RIGHT FROM CHILDHOOD."

now she is saying. i quote:
SHE IS NOT MY COUSIN,BUT AN EX FRIEND OF MINE.
WHEN I KNEW SHE WAS GONA START THE BLOG AND I ASKED THE BITCH WAT SHE WAS GONNA WRITE ABOUT,SHE TOLD ME A LOT ESPECIALLY GROWING UP.

AND I TOLD HER THAT,ITS A SMALL WORLD THAT HER DADDY MIGHT ONE DAY COME ACROSS THE BLOG AND IT WOULD HURT HIM IF HE EVER FOUND OUT ANYTHING NEGATIVE HIS DAUGHTER THAT HE REALLY LOVED HAD WRITTEN.

OVERWHELMED TOLD ME THAT IT WAS ALL FOR FUN,AND "SHE DOESNT GIVE A FUK ABOUT THE BASTARD".

what kind of lie be this. are we kids. inshort ownb is fired form blogsville. and anon is ban from commeting on anyones page. i no like this ohhhhh. and i will keep saying ownb and anon are really sick.
peace out. i will keep checking for updates.lol. i have to get to the root of this.

Anonymous said...

TO THE IDIOT WHO IS BOTHERED THAT I TYPE IN CAPS...BEETCH ITS JUST A BAD HABIT..NOT 4 THE POINTS TO SINK INTO UR THICK SKULL..

TO THE SENSIBLE PEOPLE WHO HAVE SEEN WHAT THIS POSSESED CHILD CALLED OVERHWELMED IS ALL ABOUT.ISNT IT FUNNY THAT SHE HAD ALL THE CHANCE TO BLOCK ME OFF,DID SHE??
HOW MANY TIMES WAS SHE ADVICED TO BLOCK OFF ANON COMMENTS.
SHE DIDNT.WHY??BECAUSE AS SHE TOLD ME WHEN WE WERE FRIENDS,SHE WAS LOOKING FOR POPULARITY,HITS ON HER BLOG ETC.

SHE COMES BACK AS YELLOW PAWPAW TO LEAVE A COMMENT(HOW MANY TIMES HAS THAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST?)

I DONT STALK HER BLOG,I DONT NEED TO BECAUSE I KNOW HER TOO WELL.
SHE IS A LYING,CONNIVING PIECE OF SHIT.SHE THRIVES OF ATTENTION.AND WOULD SELL HER CHILD IF IT WOULD BRING HER FAME.(REMEMBER OWNB,THE DAY I SAW A DRAFT OF THAT "STORY" AND I CONFRONTED U..ALL FOR FAME RIGHT?)

WHY HAS SHE REFUSED TO COME ONLINE AND REPLY AS OWNB?
SHE RUNS TO HER YELLOW PAWPAW BLOG TO UPDATE AND MAKE UP MORE STORIES SO AS TO SEEM BELIEVABLE HUHN ADA??

THEN SHE COMES HERE AND ADOPTS DIFFERENT RANDOM NAMES AND REPLIES.SO THAT IT CAN SEEM LIKE THE "REAL" OWNB IS NOT BOTHERED OR IS ACTING MATURE.

ADANMA(YEAH I REMEMBER THAT NAME)..U CAN FOOL ALL THE PEOPLE ON BLOGLAND..BUT YOU CAN FOOL MYSELF AND THE OTHER ANNONYMOUS WHO SUSPECTED U ALL ALONG.

AND TO THE PERSON WHO WENT TO ABE-IGI NURSERY AND PRYMARY SCHOOL TALKING ABOUT CABIN BISCUIT..ARE YOU MAD???DATS THE ONLY THING I NEED TO ASK YOU??ARE YOU REALLY SICK??

@NONBELIEVER/YELLOWPAWPAW/OWNB(CUS I KNOW ITS JUST ONE PERSON)
ITS YOUR HEAD THAT HAS TURNED COMPLETELY.
ORI E BI IGBAKO WERE,,UR FATHER THAT WILL BE COMMITED TO A PSYCH WARD.

U NEED SERIOUS DELIVERANCE,INFACT U NEED TO BE STRAPPED TO A CROSS AND STRIPPED NAKED AND FLOGGED TILL ALL THE LYING DEMONS ARE EXORCISED FROM YOU.

AND THEN DOUSED WITH HOLY WATER FROM A CELE CHURCH.

LYING BASTARD.

SHE IS ENJOYING ALL THE DRAMA NOW.BINSH,

OMO JATI JATI AKOBI AJA.

Anonymous said...

AAHHHHHH OVERWHELMED YOU HAVE OUTDONE YOURSELF THIS TIME.
as Emem correctly stated how come out of all the yellow pawpaw supporters you were the only one they gave props to to the extent that frenchsilk said you'd be her new blog friend! you are sick, the scales have fallen off our eyes, even your blog family will abandon you! there's only so much support they can give to a SICK, TWISTED ATTENTION SEEKING PATHOLOGICAL LIAR!!! IT IS FINISHED!!!

Anonymous said...

one last thing i forgot to mention anon and ownb need prozac for wasting my time.(hope i spelt that right)

Endthis said...

dont mind them oh. we are anonymous! what about them? do they put their real names on their blogs?

Kudos to ONB again for keeping me hooked. You set this up from the beginning.
You started with that post about someone finding out about your blog, then along the way you might have created this crazy anon person.

who knows?

maybe you want to stop blogging and you want to retire with a bang!
we jobless anons will always remember this drama! they will never be another ONB baby !
Keep the stories coming!

If this is your solace and therapy as you claim.. disable anonymous comments.This blog is no longer positive and therapeutic. It has turned into a joke. Jerry Springer and Maury combined.
With one click you can end this. Why are you people defending her she can defend herself . She can enable comment moderation right?

Anonymous said...

@ANON PLAYING DETECTIVE.U ARE SO RETARDED,IM THE ANON WHO OUTED OWNB.

IF YOU READ PROPERLY WHICH I SEE THAT U CAN,I SAID SOMEONE DIRECTED ME TO HER BLOG(THIS ONE)
SHE HAD A BLOG THAT DIDNT "SELL B4" AND CLOSED IT.ON THE KIMOR POST I DIDNT WANNA GO INTO TOO MANY DETAILS BCOS THE THIRD FRIEND WE HAVE WAS A BIT HESITANT ABOUT EVERYTHING.AND SHE DIDNT AT FIRST WANT A PART OF IT.UNTIL SHE READ THE YELLOW PAW PAW POST OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
AS OF WHEN I DROPPED THE REPLY ON THE KIMOR POST I WAS STILL CONTEMPLATING IF IT WAS NECESSARY TO OUT HER.
HAVE I CHANGED ANYTHING?
NO..I STILL MAINTAINED THAT I HAVE KNOWN HER SINCE CHILDHOOD,READ MY OUTING COMMENT ON HER,WE LIVED TOGETHER AS KIDS.GROWING UP.

Anonymous said...

@ANON...THAT IM SURE KNOWS HERSELF...
IN CASE YOU CANT PUT TWO AND TWO TOGETHER..

ANON IS A VERY GENERAL TITLE...I AM NOT THE ONLY ANON WHO HAD A PROBLEM WITH OWNB.IF YOU READ THRU COMMENTS U WILL SEE THAT ONE OR TWO OTHER ANONS HAD PROBLEMS WITH HER "STORIES" IN THE PAST.

AND NO I AM NOT OWNB.I HAVE NO REASON TO WNAT TO BE THE PATHOLOGICAL BITCH.

SHE IS A CONGENITAL LIAR.

Anonymous said...

anon i can see you are on online too. pls defend you self. your story does not add up.
@onwb.
you have wasted my prescious time. this has turn to yahoo chatline. i wonder how many people are on you page waiting for update pls say something before i come there and begi fun e.oniro oshi.

Anonymous said...

@anon--- am one of the three or so anon that didnt belive her until you started to make this personal. why not end this by telling us her full name or showing her pics. we are tired of this drama. but i still love you regadless of your insult. you gave me reasons not to belive you.

wondering anon said...

ADANMA!ADANMA!ADANMA! How many times did i call you? nkita na tata adiga gboja (trouble does not blow a whistle)! ARE you listening ? PLEASE GO AND GET SOME HELP! YOUR LIES ARE SICKENING AND YOUR BLOG LIFE IS WELL AND TRULY OVER! YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO ALL THE ABUSED KIDS IN THE WORLD! YOU ARE DAMAGED, STOP MUMMY SUNDAY - THERE'S NO POINT - YOU EVEN STOLE THAT FROM LONDON BUKI WHO IS SHARING REAL PROBLEMS AND NOT SEEKING POPULARITY! YOU LACK ORIGINALITY! YOU ARE A THIEF OLE BARAWO BANZA ONIOSHI LIKE YOU. akpa asi (bag of lies)

ConFuZEd! said...

Okay the more I read this the more mind blowing it gets. I have to say I am jobless for actually living a comment on this thing...but now I'm just confused. What makes us believe Overwhelmed isn't the anonumous commenter herself. Because we all know how it is abi....after a witch as done wrong she will state casting. So could she be casting???? Or is the Anonymous person for real??? Well I guess blogging will never be the same oooo......but if Anonumous is right......Karma is a Bitch Overwhelmed.....you think you're overwhelmed now......Karma is a bitch and when she comes for you u won't know how to stop her. Sorry

Anonymous said...

@anon --- why would she close her previous blog if she is such a good writer. she told you she was going to write about stuff growing up. i guess it would have been intresting regardless.i just want to make sure ownb or you is not playing us.

bhola! said...

My fellow country people, this indeed is the drama! Yar'adua dying or not dying, is not even as hot as this page. Mehn, Nigerians, we sure love drama!

I think what can be done is this: someone, maybe one of the anons that knows her, should open a blog and then, the other anons and detectives, can evaluate ownb's posts.

Do I believe the anons ousting her? No. Does it make for a great soap opera? Hell to the Yeah. Now, you have spoilt my blog reading experience. Wetin I go do now, with my jobless sef?

Lying or not, this is the place to be. Like ousting anon, this page updates every 2 mins. I can't afford to miss any drama.

Anonymous said...

I CAN DEFEND MYSELF...LET ME START FROM THE BEGINING.

U SEE OWNB WANTED TO START A BLOG A WHILE AGO.AND THAT SHE TOLD ME ABOUT.WHEN I ASKED HER SHE SAID SHE WAS GONA TALK ABOUT STUFF ETC(PLEASE READ MY OUTING COMMENT)
BUT APPARENTLY THE FIRST BLOG OF HERS I READ WASNT A HIT WITH PEOPLE.SO SHE CLOSED IT.
THEN STARTED THIS ONE.IT WAS THIS ONE THAT THE THIRD FRIEND DIRECTED ME TO,BECAUSE AS OF THAT POINT OWNB AND I WERENT TALKING MUCH DUE TO THE CONTENTS OF HER FIRST BLOG.SO SHE DIDNT WANNA INFORM ME OF THIS ONE.I LEARNT ABOUT IT AND READ AND WAS SHOCKED THAT SHE STILL HADNT CHANGED HER LYING WAYS FROM HER FIRST BLOG ETC..WHICH WAS THE REASON WE HAD A FALLOUT AT FIRST.
ONE OF HER PARTING WORDS TO ME WAS THAT SHE WAS STILL GONNA SPICE THINGS UP BEOS HER DREAM IS TO WRITE ONE DAY AND SHE DOESNT CARE WHAT SHE FEEDS PEOPLE AND IF SHE HAS TO GO THRU A MILLION BLOGS.

OWNB SAID TO ME THAT THE SAME WAY SOMEONE LIKE LILLY ALLEN WAS DISCOVERED VIS IS IT MY SPACE??THAT SHE ALSO COULD BE DISCOVERED ON BLOGLAND.

I HAD A SERIOUS ISSUE WITH THAT NOT CUS I AM RIGHTEOUS OR SHIT..BUT BECOS IT IS DISGUSTING THAT SOMEONE WOULD DO THIS.

CANT YOU GUYS ADD UP??
IN HER PAST POST DIDNT SHE INSINUATE THAT I MIGHT BE SOMEONE SHE KNOWS??

YET SHE WAS SCARED THAT I MIGHT/MIGHTNT OUT HER SO SHE DROPPED IT AND PLAYED THE IGNORE GAME.

I GOT NOTHING TO GAIN..I JUST HATE THE FACT THAT SHE WANTS TO PAINT HER DAD IN A BAD LIGHT MAKE UP STORIES THAT DIDNT HAPPEN AND ALSO SAY TRASH ABOUT V,THE MIXED GIRL SHE IS THINLY DISSING BY THE YELLOW PAWPAW BLOG.

ANYONE WANTS TO KNOW MORE JUST ASK..I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE.

BUT PLEASE BEAR IN MIND,...THERE ARE MORE THAN ONE ANONS WHO HAVE HAD ISSUES WITH HER.AND I CANT SPEAK FOR EVERYONE.

Anonymous said...

@ANON (EX-FRIEND)

I believe u but like I said please send her father to this page so that he can leave a comment that will make her come crumbling to pieces.

For non-believers, another thing to ponder Frenchsilk who is the main character in the yellow paw-paw blog is 5ft, 11 and OWNB has claimed to be the same height...how ironic...it seems to me that no matter how much OWNB tries to strectch her imagination it becomes even more apparent that na so so lie...

Anonymous said...

@^^ANON ABOVE ME..MY DEAR U DESERVE A STANDING OVATION.DIDNT I SAY SHE WAS THE ONE?AND BASING IT ON V'S LIFESTYLE?SHE DEY LIE ON TOP INNOCENT GIRL AND YET SHE CANNOT EVEN GIVE THE GIRL A DISTINCTIVE PHYSICAL XTERISTIC BUT HERS?
HOW DUMB IS SHE??

SEE OH...SHE HAS MOVED HER AUDIENCE TO YELLOWPAWPAW NOW.AND FOOLS WILL FOLLOW TO CONTINUE READING.

I MEAN U GUYS COMMON ADD UP..ADD UP.

WHEN DID YELLOW PAWPAW BLOG START..

SHORTLY AROUND WHEN SHE STARTED NOTICING THAT A CERTAIN "ANON"(ME) WAS IN HER HEAD ABI??


I WILL OFCOURSE TELL HER DAD.
HE CAN THEN CHOOSE TO DO WHAT HE FEELS IS RIGHT.

I JUST FEEL SO BAD CUS HE IS A GREAT MAN.AND IT WILL BREAK HIM TO PIECES.

THAT DEMON CHILD

Anonymous said...

apart from frenchsilk, think of the character Legz - OWNB goes on about her long legs and has put them up on display on her blog. Yellow pawpaw indeed. The pieces are finally fitting in.

Anonymous said...

@ownb--- i really want to say god go punish you for making my lazy ass additcted to this stupid blog of your while i have a text tomorrow.but i wount say it. can we put all this on hold till tomorrow.this constant update is not making me not pay attention and am starting to have headache.

Anonymous said...

just thot id make it 96 comments...

LondonChameleon

Anonymous said...

awww dammit, 101 then!

LC

Anonymous said...

@ANON ABOVE,,,,I SWEAR I WANNA GIVE YOU A HUG,,U ARE SO SMART..CAN U SEE HOW EVERYTHING JUST ADDS UP?CAN YOU SEE..AND IF WE TALK NOW DEM GO SAY ANON TOO LIKE TROUBLE ANONS WANNA CAUSE KATAKATA ON ONE USELESS DEMONS BLOG.

Anonymous said...

@ANON ABOVE,,,,I SWEAR I WANNA GIVE YOU A HUG,,U ARE SO SMART..CAN U SEE HOW EVERYTHING JUST ADDS UP?CAN YOU SEE..AND IF WE TALK NOW DEM GO SAY ANON TOO LIKE TROUBLE ANONS WANNA CAUSE KATAKATA ON ONE USELESS DEMONS BLOG.

Anonymous said...

Chineke me!!! The plot deepens - overwhelmed ngwanu wot do you have to say eh? daddy is going to hear about this ahh it can't be easy!

Dem talk say 'DEATH wen wan kill dog e no dey let am hear the smell of SHIT! and 'FLY wen no dey lISTEN to im mama dey follow deadbody enter grave'.

ADANMA/OWNB a word is enough for the wise. PLEASE SEEK HELP, YOU'VE BEEN RUMBLED AND YOU HAVE LOST UR SUPPORTERS CLUB.

Anonymous said...

i wonder who the joke is on here because am having a terible headache now and i can imagine ownb in her room lauging at the drama she has caused. imagine can someone start thia kind katakata between people in different country. she really needs an award.

@ownb an really getting upset you need to say something before i come over there and kick your lying ass.
as for you anon why not say something that will get her taking because am tired of waiting on her reply.am jeopardizing my career for this stupid blog.on the other had am thinking ownb would have closed this blog by now with the daddy threat. something does not add up here.

Anonymous said...

Where is non believer and yellow paw paw? they've lost their voices just like overwhelmed ... You are all finished -Adanma you are all three of these people. You are destroyed.

Next Door Stranger said...

i kept quite because i dont know want to belive.onb is one of the reasons i started a blog and i think it would hurt me a little if this stories were made up.this means a lot to some of us.

Anonymous said...

wow im reading this with my jaw on the floor.
ownb u were my main girl on blogland.what is the meaning of this?is it true?

isnt she an adult?what will her daddy do to her?flog her?going by the posts and comments etc,they dont live together.so ownb i think your game is up.

pack up your nonsense and leave the market.u have just lost your number one fan.ME.

Steven said...

Let me ask you, anonymous,
WHAT DO YOU WANT? You have already said she is a liar,kleptomaniac,the one that made up "yellow paw paw"? ehen? what else? if you don't have anything else useful to add, please fuck off. If you personally know her and you think she is a liar, what are we supposed to do? WE DO NOT KNOW HER!!!!!!please, if that is all you have to say, thank you,thank you very much for the information.

Angela said...

Hehehehe. LOL. I thank God for expereince sha because for some reason i am programmed not to believe everything i read on this internet. LOL. I saw yellow paw paw blog and that was outright a lie. too far fetched. But with Overwhelmed's blog, i always left room for "error margin" abi what's that thing they thot us in physics back then. Look relax guys it's the internet where you "can be all that you can be" una wey believe everything sef, u suppose check urself...check gini? i take that back, you are supposed to flogg urselves. the line that was crossed here is "you guys acting as if a faceless blogger has a moral obligation to tell you the truth and only the truth about her life". It's not like you guys cared personally so yeah shame on una LOL!!!

It's all good sha..if the gal wan write book she can go on sounas long as she remember to categorize it as FICTION...does James Frey ring a bell? Million little lies....

Anonymous said...

@STEVEN..OVERWHELMED U AGAIN?U ARE COMING AS A MAN NOW??

Simply Gorgeous said...

Very interesting blog. I get like that sometimes.

Steven said...

Okay people, I am not overwhelmed for sure!anonymous, please, you said we should ask questions and now, I am asking you, WHAT DO YOU WANT?

Anonymous said...

@steven some people are actually affected by this; check out stranger next doors comment...

@ angela; my sister you talk am well well although some of us have been trying to highlight this issue from time immemorial but noooo her supporters club refused to see

Anonymous said...

Overwhelmed is really twisted not only did she not give us update on blast on the past in her previous post, she had the guts to come here and tell us that she misses 'kimor' - that's if he really exists - and after the anons finished her she came back and left a comment claiming she had not been reading the comments becos a virus messed up her computer and it needed to be fixed. Even by ur lying standard that was naff. But your supporters club believed that abi? Is that possible? Shame dey catch you after retending that you have not soken to kimor and the anons asked if there weren't any phoneline in jamaica, you started claiming that you spoke to him thrice, y didn'yt you say this in the post? I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR LIFE... The silence of your fellow supporters seaks for themselves. guess they are all devastated.
I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO REVIVE THIS BLOG? WE WILL HOUND YOU AND RUN YOU TO THE GROUND! SHAMEFACED LIAR!!!

Anonymous said...

thank you anon below! when they is trouble that is when she had an internet problem. there has been no problems since she started spewing her lies. why hasnt she replied - another virus in her computer.

steven said...

Okay, I agree with you, fiction should be fiction and real life should be that.The thing is internet is not somewhere to proove this kind of thind, since we are all strangers and know each other just from our comments. In one way, a lot of us are naive because we would like to believe that everybody is being honest with their stories which they say is "real life". I am also upset that seeds of doubt have been sown in my mind and I really do no know what to make of the whole scenario. Frankly, internet is too abstract for these kind of accusations.If overwhelmed is writing "fiction" and basing it on somebody else's life (yellow paw paw blog), and that person can be identified, then then that is definitely not right. Very bad indeed. However, the problem is none of these accusations can be prooved so I really don't know what I, as an independent blog reader should do. Do you want her to shut her blog? do you want her to confess? do you want her to stop the "yellow paw paw" blog, or do you want her to change the title of the blogs to say "fiction" or something like that? What would you like her to do?

wondering anon said...

@Steven: we would like her to be honest as her blog has touched quite a number of people esp the mummy sunday bit, and people have revealed stuff in the belief that they shared experiences in common, people have written her poems, people have supported her, encouraged her and felt they were helping a wounded soul but ALAS! she betrayed their trust. Who cares you might ask? i guess majority of her blog family care and that is why they are all silent and taking in this information and analysing the possibilities that this was all fabricated! It is deep stuff. If she had said it was part fiction and part true, that could have been fine. But it's obvious she lied and she can't do anything about it. It's a great shame. Really is. I wonder how she's planning her come back, but i'll say she should shut down her blog as it is now a big joke!

Anonymous said...

I HONESTLY DONT NEED HER TO DO ANYTHING?WHY?WHAT FOR?SHE HAS BEEN SHOWN TO BE WHAT SHE IS...A BAREFACED COMPULSIVE LIAR,WITH HER EVERY TURN HAS TO HAVE A TWIST.

AS MY DARLING SENSIBLE OTHER ANON SAID...AT FIRST SHE CAME WITH BLAST FROM THE PAST,SOMEONE QUESTIONED IT,SHE CAME BACK WITH MISSING KIMOR,SOMEONE ASKED IF THEY DIDNT HAVE PHONES IN JAMAICA,THEN SHE COMES BACK AND TALKS ABOUT VIRUS INFECTING HER SYSTEM AND THAT SHE HAS ACTUALLY SPOKEN TO HIM TWICE OR SO.

DO U HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY PEOPLE MIGHT BE FOLLOWING HER BLOG JUST BECAUSE THEY SEE AS "INSPIRATIONAL"

DID SHE HAVE TO LIE TO GET WHAT SHE WANTED?DID SHE HAVE TO DO A VEILED INSULT ON THE PERSON WHOSE IDENTITY SHE BASED YELLOW PAWPAW ON??

THIS GIRL IS SICK,TWISTED,AND I SUGGEST HER NEW CYBER FRIENDS SIT HER DOWN AND TALK TO HER DEEPLY AND CONVINCE HER TO GET HELP.

THIS IS SELF DESTRUCTION ON THE HIGHEST SCALE.

OWNB/NONBELIEVER/YELLOWPAWPAW/STEVEN..AND ALL THE ALIASES U KEEP COMING UP WITH.

I HOPE U TRULY GET DELIVERED FROM U PERSONAL DEMONS.

IN CASE UR MUM DIDNT TEACH YOU,LIES ONLY LAST SO LONG,ONE THING WILL COME UP TO UNRAVEL IT ALL.

Anonymous said...

U people that keep sayin that she has lost u as a fan...is this blog bringin her money?? if u stop readin her blog what do u think u will do to her?
someone asked where frenchsilk and whoever where....maybe theyre out living their lives unlike u losers who stay on a blog all day replying urselves and tryin to "unearth" mysteries of the internet with people u dont know. If u dont like both blogs: FUCK OFF..ure not doing anyone a favor

ONEGUILTYPARTY said...

WOOOOOOAHHHHHHHH...STOP THE PRESS!!!
OK OK OK SERIOUSLY ANONYMOUS (U KNOW WHO U ARE)...THIS HAS GONE ON LONG ENOUGH..
WHEN U SAID U WERE THE ONE WRITING THAT YELLOW PAW PAW BLOG AND U WANTED TO SOMEHOW DESTROY OVERWHELMED WE BOTH LAUGHED ABOUT IT...IT SEEMED HARMLESS ENOUGH..
WE EVEN LAUGHED WHEN SHE BECAME UR NO1. DEFENDER ON YELLOW PAW PAW..DEFINE IRONY..
BUT ALL THIS ONE OF CLAIMING TO KNOW HER AND HER FATHER AND ALL THAT...HABA NOW..CHILL...URE TAKING IT TOO FAR ABEG AND I JUST WANT TO CALL IT TO A HALT
OVERWHELMED DID NOT WRITE YELLOW PAWPAW..IT WAS A JOKE BETWEEN FRIENDS THAT HAS SPUN OUT OF CONTROL
..
THINK ABOUT IT..THIS SAME ANONYMOUS WROTE ON YELLOW PAWPAW THAT WHY ARE THEY MAKING A BIG DEAL ABOUT BEING MIXED, WHEN SHE IS HALF GREEK AND A MEMBER OF THE "ELITE" BIRACIALS IN NAIJ
NOW SHE IS RELATED TO OVERWHELMED AND KNOWS HER AND HER FATHER

IM FEELING TOO BAD...URE DESTROYING SOMEONES LIFE NOW AND MAKING HER LOOK LIKE A PSYCHOPATH... SO SO ...NOT COOL.. AND U KNOW IT...
I MEAN ABEG I KNOW URE A JOKER BUT THIS ONE TOO MUCH NOW...
LET IT ALL END!
IT WAS ALLL A HOAX
AND IT HAS NUTHIN TO DO WITH OVERWHELMED... ANON ACHIEVED HER GOAL..MUCH SOONER AND MUCH MORE EFFECTIVELY THAN SHE COULD HAVE HOPED... YOU WON THE BET AND LET IT END HERE! PLEASEEEEEEE
THIS IS TOO MUCH....

steven said...

Once again, I am not overwhelmed.
So now, I am asking overwhelmed, for all of us that religiously read your blog, please can you clear up the following issues:
1. Are parts of the stories from your past fiction? and if so, which one?
2. Are you really the writer of the yellow paw paw blog? If you are, please confirm if you have based it on a real person that can be identified from the description you gave.
3. If all these accusations are not true, why don't you have comment moderation? It is really strange that you have allowed it to go as far as you did.

It would be very nice if you could reply, I am one of your faithful readers( I changed my name because I do not want the "anonymouses" to go to my blog and cause problem, I am terrified of them)

Anonymous said...

@ONEGUILTYPARTY..ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED?
SO WETHER IM MIXED OR NOT DOES IT HAVE MEAN I CANNOT KNOW UR SPECIAL FRIEND OVERWELMED?

ARE U LITERATE AT ALL??
AT WHAT POINT DID I TELL U THAT I WAS WRITING YELLOW PAWPAWS BLOG.DO U SUFFER FROM CATARACT OR APOLLO IN YOUR EYES??

CAN U READ AT ALL??LIKE SERIOUSLY..OR EVEN IF YOU DO READ CAN YOU ASSIMILATE ANYTHING??

WHEN DID I JOKE WITH YOU THAT I WAS WRITING THE YELLOW PAWPAW BLOG??

PLEASE IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO FIGHT UR "SPECIAL" FRIEND OVERWHELMEDS BATTLE GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT.

TO EVEN SHOW HOW SLOW YOU ARE...AM I THE ONLY ANON??
DIDNT I EVEN SAY THAT SOME PEOPLE HAD A PROBLEM WITH HER STORIES FROM THE START AND EVEN THEN AGAIN,I SAID WE HAVE ANOTHER FRIEND AND SHE MIGHT OR MIGHT NOT BE ONE OF THE OTHER ANONS,SHE MIGHT OR MIGHT NOT BEB MIXED.
HOW MANY ANONS REPLIED ON YELLOW PAWPAWS BLOG TALKING ABOUT THEIR BREED?U TRULY ARE DAFT.

TRY ANOTHR ONE.USING STYLE TO BEG FOR THAT BITCH ABI..

INFACT DONT GET ME ANY ANGRIER ELSE I WILL SAY MORE OF WHAT I KNOW.

WHAT NONSENSE..WHEN DID THE BITCH DEFEND ME ON YELLOW PAWPAW..WHEN I RIGHT FROM THE INCEPTION OF THE BLOG WAS AMONGST THOSE WHO SAW THRU IT.BUT I THOT SHE WAS SERIOUSLY HAVING A LAUGH AT FIRST UNTIL I SAW FOR REAL THAT SHE WAS GOING TOO FAR.

WAS SHE NOT SUPPORTING THE YELLOW PAWPAWS WHO EVEN BIGGED HER UP?(GO FIGURE,IT WAS HER BIGGING HERSELF UP)

BETTER TIGHTEN UR LOOPHOLES BEFORE U COME AND PRESENT YOUR SHIT HERE,BECOS I WILL TEAR IT TO PIECES..

emem said...

@oneguiltyparty.oh my god,this is so transparent.obviously you were sent by overwhelmed or you are overwhelmed herself.

Anonymous said...

@oneguiltyparty.okayyyy...and your point is?
u are tring to play detective too,but failing miserably at it.
go to bed my dear,i think ur head is buzzing already.

bibi said...

@ oneguiltyparty....which one is this ooo...who do we believe now....geez...drama this is like a soap opera...

Anonymous said...

@ONEGUILTYPARTY..INFACT IM BACK AGAIN U ARE JUSTA A FOOL.TALKING AS IF YOU KNOW MYSELF OR OVERWHELMED.ARE YOU MAD?

WAT JOKE BETWEEN FRIENDS?WHAT FRIENDS?THAT BITCH AINT MY FRIEND ANYMORE,OPPORTUNIST THAT SHE IS.

IF YOU DONT KNOW SHIT ABOUT SOMETHING DONT OPEN UR DIRTY MOUTH.

ARE U TRYING TO STYLISHLY BEG FOR OVERHWHELEMED SO THAT SHE CONTINUE BLOGGING HER SHIT??

OH IS THE POINT WHERE IM MEANT TO SAY "OH I WAS JOKING,OH IT WAS A HOAX,LETS KISS AND MAKE UP?""

U MUST THINK I CAME HERE TO SELL PEPPER..

COMMON GERAUT B4 I ASK YEMOJA TO FAYA UR YANSH

Anonymous said...

katakata don burst!!! one guilty party ke - well the name speaks for itself. e be like say overwhelmed wan begin im confession sessions...

Anonymous said...

lol..seriously...u responded in like 5 mins...i cant believe how predictable u all are..
@ bibi and who ever else...ur life shudnt revolve around findin out if this blog is real or not...
at the end of it all
u are all fuckin no life losers.. especially that anon that replies in less than 2 secs... i left a comment and watched a commercial..came back and BOOOM...like 5 responses... i have made myself laugh this evening..
u people are like entertainment monkeys.... keep entertainin all of us... at least i know when i finish my daily activities i can trust that u people wud have left me enough entertainment for the night...
RAWK ON LOSERS!

Anonymous said...

@ anonymous u are a fool! do you think you are the only one getting entertained. you are entertaining us as well. we are all doing the same thing. do you exect your comments will make us run and hide? ODE OSHI LIKE YOU. you must feel you are special, olori korodo that cannot shift away from his computer.... na headache go kill you tomorrow morning - no go sleep OLOSHI

Anonymous said...

ANON ABOVE^^^I FEEL SORRY FOR U.
ARENT YOU DOING THE SAME THING YOU ACCUSE BIBI AND EVERYONE ELSE OF DOING??
U SAID U LEFT A COMMENT NO??AND U OPEN UR OKU ORUN MOUTH TO SAY SOME PEOPLE ARE DOING SUCH AND ARE LOSERS.

U ARE A CLOSET ENTERTAINMENT MONKEY TOO,,AT LEAST SOME OF US HAVE COME OF OUT OF THE CLOSET.

OLODO RABATA....WHY DONT U THINK B4 U POST...IDIOT,,,POT CALLING FUKING AGBARI OJUKWU BLACK...

Anonymous said...

SORRY I MEANT THE ANON THAT WAS SAYING SOMEONE WAS AN ENTERTAINMENT MONKEY..NOT THE ANON DIRECTLY BELOW...

Anonymous said...

this is so funny. for those that speak or understand only english i bet you do not find this funny. i kept LMAO at the way people mix their yourba, ibo and broken with english. wow-- the power of language. keep the post comming. ownb please dont close this page i need something to make me laugh when am sad.

Anonymous said...

so where are the people defending her before now. ownb come out ohhhhh. your supporters cant fight for you anymore if you dont show up ohh. ashiri ti tu. a ti ri furo adiye.did anyone notice its only the anon left.ownb anon's have really overwhelmed you.

Anonymous said...

i hate you alllllllllllllllllllll

Kate said...

This whole thing is just too bush! abeg you guys should leave this blog jare!if the owner of the blog really wanted, all this would have been over a long time a go. All these "anonymous" comments are too confusing, if they are different people, why not just take different names to distinguish themselves? This whole wahala does not have head or tail.Its just too raz. Small small girls! look, this thing is just going to put your blog on a bush level, whatever your reasons for not moderating comments, this blog is officially the "marketplace" of blogville

Anonymous said...

ok u fucking bitches need to chill. im sure some of una bloody behinds dey fo nigeria...at this late hour. I really really think u guys are losers mehn.i mean i just skimmed through these comments..like 135 comments...HA...LOSERSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS......im sure some of u even get children. You need lives...i hope u are ashamed of urselves...fucking losers......this is the reason why nigeria cant progress...because of IDIOTS like u...jeez...get a life...stop being on the internet..u have MANY other options in life u know...um, can u watch tv or better yet leave ur houses? u do not have to be stuck on the internet. Yeah watelse was i trying to say..oh yes bitch..im MIXED like i said on my fucking blog...and i dont even know who overwhelmed is....just found her blog today after all u fucking losers decided that it was her writing as me....first i'ld like to address that anonymous person....stupid idiot nigerian ugly girl...you r such an idiot. You think that you have done something that is great abi..spinning tales about some random chick that doesnt know me and my friends from bloody adam...my goodness...u r fucking crazy bitch..and u r a little cunt because if this is wat ur life is about when ppl around u are doing big things then u deserve to be in a mental home...fucking minger
and to the rest of u pple that think that all of this rubbish is true.hmm..u people are just stupid. Did u go to skool at all? cus i swear u all are fucking retarded. This is the reason y i dislike Nigeria immensely because Nigerians are just haters..thank goodness i have some other race to le on...u ppl r a disgrace to a country....idiots...and oh this is the EJECTOR by the way...i do not play calm!

Anonymous said...

overwhelmed...

1)it is time to get statcounter (statcounter.com) or sitemeter (sitemeter.com) so you can track these aholes and see who the stalkers are.
2) you need to enable moderation on your comments for a few days/weeks.

this has gotten out of control.

Anonymous said...

lol this ejector sef...carry go, what was the point of telling us that you are mixed? again? what was the point of calling anon an ugly nigerian girl...see me see wahala, you ahve another race to fall back on? osanobua...this one i no fit talk again

i remain respectfully ANONYMOUS

LOL this should be invasion of the anons lol

Anonymous said...

chineke...this ejector, hmm...all i know is something is definitely fishy here...damn for all you saying it doesnt matter, it does

james frey wrote a book, no? it was good so why did it matter if it was real or fake. and dont talk about internet...there were real ppl supporting this girl, my self included, ahn ahn one time it was so bad, i couldnt read her blog again for fear of my heart breaking apart...na true i talk, so if she made shit up, its not fair to us real ppl...internet or no internet

and FUCK YEAH IM ANONYMOUS LOL

Anonymous said...

i dont just get those pawpaw chicks....if u hate nigerians so much and u hate the country......y dont u leave?......y do u keep saying naija related stuff n reading naija blogs.....as u said ....u r so lucky to have another race to fall back on...right?.... so go ahead abi? since nigerians r always hating on u cos u r so pretty.... who needs to deal with all the hate right?......

Ubong Da said...

Mama Ngozi, abeg more 404 peppersoup oh and let the gulder flow continiously. Wetin? 404 don finish. Okay go my house and catch bingo.

Na here I go dey until this nollywood movie finish o!.

Damn this is the best entertainment I have had in a long while. Long live OWNB long Live Anon. May the battle continue.

If anybody tries to stop them me and the person go wear the same shokoto, and make I warn am first I don baptise for warri o!, so no let me show u my demo. Ask Waffarian if you don't believe.

Anonymous said...

dont you all have jobs, classes to do but blog all day on trivial things like this! ok you have outed her..let her now deal wit her conscience. i cant believe the extent of this drama and Ejector you are still partly nigerian as you claim so all the abuse you call Nigerians, if you didnt know, you insulted yourself as well, so now go bac to school and return all the degrees and diploma you have gotten or about to get, its obvious its not bein used effectively

ALL THESE NR BITCHES said...

Who mentioned Yemoja's name?
I see you NR bitches have brought your dry selves ovr here. so Yemoja is behind this as well. what a bunch of dumb asses. fucking horny broads is what you lot are, coming up in here and starting shit.
your personal lives are so dry that harrasing a woman on her blog is your only form of entertainment. you dont even know how pathetic you look and seem right now. Karma is a bitch, BITCHES. take your market women asses back to NR where people can put you in your place. dumb bitches!!!!!!!

Calabar Gal said...

Why is there always one catfight or the other going on on OWNB's blog? Haba!!!!

@Ubong DA: U had me in stitches!! You've finished all that 404 peppersoup alone? Better order headlights, gearbox and plantain for me with palm wine to wash it down.

@OWNB: Babe, its time to enable comment moderation. Naija Dude has offered to show you how countless times. Too much bad blood and insults spewing all over the place.

ziariz said...

na wah oh.. how old are you guys again? i must say that i am really shocked and quite overwhelmed... it seems like OMHB set all of this up, the stories, the comments and anon... every single thing... it's all so staged... all you other guys please don't be moved by all of this... it's all an act, her calmness at all of this is very uncanny, i can almost see her giggling as she stares with rapt attention at her PC/LAPTOP... getting high on all the comments and concerns and all...but please i beg of us all.. lets keep it clean, stop the swearing, the name callings and the nastiness whether its a joke or not... it doesn't speak well of us as women...
@overwhelmed: enjoy, it's your time
@anon: i have nothing to say but lets always remember that "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks" for all the nastiness spewing out of your mouth, your mind and heart must just be as evil.
@everyone else: who cares what a 21 year old girl is doing... it's her life, just read for the fun of it and don't get so affected and finally
@ me: get out of this blog and back to work...
peace out

Anonymous said...

@EJECTOR...u just outdown urself in the STUPID DEPARTMENT.
ooh we are so scared...DEJECTOR DOESNT PLAY CALM..OOOOHH...UR DRIVEL IS EXACTLY WATS EXPECTED FROM A MONGREL LIKE YOU..AND YEAH OVERWHELMED I KNOW ITS U.I JUST KNOW...

Anonymous said...

@THE SENSIBLE ANON..U CAN SEE SHE DON RUN AWAY AS "OVERWHELMED" AND ALL OF A SUDDEN "YELLOW PAWPAW" AND "EJECTOR" ARE LEAVING MESSAGES.

GIRL IS SOOOOOOOOOOO DUMB DIGGIDY DAFT.

NA REAL OPONU.

Peace My Friends said...

Right People.

The joke is on everyone.

If you check the heading of ONG's Blog is states clearly

'IN MY MIND'

wondering anon said...

@ calabar girl why are you giving stale advice, if by now you have not figured out the madness that is overwhelmed then i suggest you seek help as well. do you think she cares? people like you are the one that keep patronising her and then laugh behind her back! i'm glad ziariz and a few other bloggers 'have seen the light'. I hope when this drama is over, you'll all abandon her blog in your droves. For someone to make up stories like that and pass them off as true is sickening. I bet you know yourself that she is a LIAR and shame will not let her comeback here.

Anonymous said...

@WONDERING ANON..thank u oh my friend.calabar gal needs to seek help if she is still trying to salvage whatever shreds left of that lying cows reputation.

and of course overwhelmed is a shameless beast,she can come back and spin one long story to try and win her fans back.

person wey fit use im own papa to sweet gist and attract people wetin she no fit do.

Soul said...

Here's the thing..

According to the comments, for over 24 hours one or more 'anons' have had a 'beef' with overwhelmed.

You have made claims that you know her
Fine, you might, you might not. There is no way for anyone except you and overwhlemed to know this.

You have claimed that she is a liar
You cannot present any proof due to the nature of blogging. It's your word against hers. And she's been around longer and built bonds. All people know of you is well .. is this.

You have claimed to be speaking up because of all those people who believed in overwhelmed's blog as fact
Now here's the thing, Overwhelmed inspired many people to let go of what they were holding inside.. some very painful memories.
How is anything you are doing now for their benefit.
And what makes you believe that you know what people thought about overwhlemed?

You claim to be defending her father, because he is your uncle
The fact is, he is NOT your father. Even if you grew up with overwhelmed, you are not privy to everything that goes on it that relationship. Let it go. Her perception of her dad is her perception. Her reality is her reality

You claim she is a fantasist
Fine, there are many out there. Why pick on her? especially when whatever she is doing has inspired many people and helped a few people heal. Who is she really hurting here? - nobody

You have rained curses on her repeatedly
Why?. To what end? what's the reason, because you think she made this up?. She deserves to be cursed?

You have constantly 'had a go' at anybody who dared to have a different opinion from you
Why don't you allow people the same brevity with which you comment?

You have threatened to expose her real life details
Again why? who would this serve. And you do know that if you do that, then what you have been doing can be regarded as libelous and your ISP will be forced to reveal who you are.

you have threatened to destroy her
Why? who would this serve?. And how could you hate someone soo much to threaten to destroy that person?

You have claimed to be an ex-friend
So why are you STILL concerned about her anymore, you claimed she tried to reconcile with you, but you don't want anything to do with her..Fine.. why not keep it moving


For 24 solid hours.. you have pushed your agenda, you have gone on and on.. you have lamented and called on everybody to abandon someone you claim to know, in some of the most vile language ever.

You have claimed she is an attention seeker when she responded previously.. and now you claim she is an atention seeker when she doesn't respond

If she is such an attention seeker, why are you giving her any more attention?. Why are you increasing the hits to her blog?.

Soul said...

You seem very concerned that she might still have people who want to read her blog, why not let them be.
You habve said your own... Let them decide what they want to do now.

you have insinuated that Overwhelmed has run away, because she hasn't responded to you

Nope. I as well as a few others have not only emailed her, but also called her and specifically told her not to respond to any of these comments. Becasue there is no point.

You left no room for any response, it was obvious that you wanted to say your piece and plenty of us felt that we should just let you get it out of your system... andyes by you I am referring to the 3 different/unique anons under numerous guises.

I even asked her to leave the comments un-moderated for a while.
Why?
Because sometimes people don't believe it when you tell them the ugliness that goes on behind the scenes and this is a prime example.

You have threatened to destroy her
You have threatened to litter the internet with her personal details
You have claimed to defend her father
You have called her a liar
You have rained curses on her head
You have called her all names under the sun

All of this because you claim she is using her father to make gist or lying.

Well okay.
Everybody heard you.. For the past 24 hours everybody has read you.
what now?.

Some may believe you, some may not.. but how long are you going to keep saying the exact same thing over and over again?

Anonymous said...

@SOUL.. AUNTY AGBAYA...AND YOUR POINT EXACTLY IN THIS EPISTLE TO THE PEOPLE IS??

U AND SOME OTHER MUGUS CALLED HER AND TOLD HER NOT TO RESPOND...

YEAHHHH RIGHT....AS IF PEOPLE HADNT BEEN TELLING HER THE SAME B4 AND SHE WOULD STILL COME BACK AND RESPOND.

U ARE ALL A BUNCH OF JOKERS ARENT U.

SHE IS INSPIRING AND HELPING PEOPLE WITH HER BLOG ABI??

THTS WHY SHE NEEDS TO LIE,MAKE UP THINGS,MAKE UP ANOTHER BLOG,LIE SOME MORE.INSINUATE THAT V SLEPT WITH HER BROTHER.


IF LYING BECAUSE "HER REALITY IS HER REALITY" THEN WHY THE HELL WAS THAT BLOKE CALLED OUT ON OPRAH AFTER HE MADE PEOPLE BELIVE HIS BOOK WAS "HIS STORY=HIS REALITY"??

HUHN??MISS SMARTY PANTS...

GOD CAN NEVA LET ME BE RELATED TO THE BASTARD....

U CLAIM TO HAVE TOLD HER TO LET THE COMMENTS BE UNMODERATED FOR A WHILE HOW BLOODY TRANSPARENT ARE YOU PEOPLE??SO PEOPLE CAN SEE WHATS HAPPENING BEHIND THE SCENES ABI??

U ARE A DUMMY FOR REAL...THE ONLY REASON THE BITCH NEVER MODERATED COMMENTS WAS THE SOLE REASON SHE LIES AND MAKES UP STORIES....TO ATTRACT ATTENTION.

HER SITUATION IS REALLY BAD..VERY BAD..AND IT WILL DO HER GOOD TO SEEK HELP.

IF I HADNT OUTED HER NOW...DID I MENTION A DRAFT I SAW EARLIER??
WITH HER??

EHN ASK HER WHAT THE DRAFTS ABOUT NOW???

ABEGII...IF YOU DONT KNOW THE IJINLE OF A SITUATION EITHER SHUT UP,COMMENT RANDOMLY(BUT WITH SENSE)OR SIT AND BE A SPECTATOR.

ARE U EDUCATED AT ALL MADAM SOUL??

ANON..IS A GENERAL TERM..SO MANY PEEPS CAN BE ANON IF THEY CHOOSE TO BE..I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF...HENCE I DONT KNOW HALF THE OTHER ANONS ON HERE...I OUTTED HER YEAH..

BUT U GO ON AND SAY THAT I AM NOT LETTING PEOPLE VOICE THEIR OPINION AND IM INSULTIN THEM..
CAN U READ????AT ALL??

HOW MANY OTHER PEEPS HAVE INSULTED ME HERE??HER "FANS" OF COURSE..BUT DO I CARE???HELLS NO...BUT I CANT BE INSULTED AND KEEP QUIET,MO KI SHE OMO LOSILE LO GBA ESI WA MEN..I WILL REPLY U STRAIGHT UP.

SO DO UR WORK...TRY AND PICK THE PIECES OF HER BLOGLIFE BACK TOGETHER....

SHE NEEDS IT,OR ELSE SHE WILL SURELY DIE...

AT LEAST IF THIS BLOG CRUMBLES...SHE ALREADY MADE A BACK UP ONE...

BUNCH OF MUGUS
SHE IS A FRAUD AND THAT IS THAT.

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH.
i have been away from blogland for too long.
WHAT THE FUCK?
overwhelmed which bastard is trying you?WHO DEM?WEY DEM DEY?
WAT FOR?
my dear,dont mind anybody.dont even pay any attention to the anonymous cockroaches.u remember my own blog when i had to dedicate a whole post to the motherfuckers(AND YES I WILL BE BACK)?
OVERHWELMED,u were one of those who adviced me and tried to cheer me up.
girl,the only thing i can tell you is that this is expected.when you are forging ahead in whatever way in life,people will definitely come and try and pull you down.EVEN ON BLOGLAND.
i dont understand why someone can just decide to just pick on a young girl.WETHER SHE IS WRITING PART FICTION OR NOT.WHOSE BEESWAX IS IT?
bottom line is that the girl can WRITE..AND HER WRITING HAS AFFECTED A LOT OF PEOPLE MOSTLY POSITIVE IM SURE.
but people are wicked sha.and reading through this,i have a feeling some of the anons on here just enjoy infesting peoples blogs for their own personal satisfaction.
OVERWHELMED,KIDDO,BE STRONG,IT COME WITH THE TERRITORY...JUST LAUGH IT OFF AND BRUSH THE SHIT OFF YOUR SHOULDERS..

AS FOR ME MO WA LEYIN E LIKE A FUCKING HUNCH!!

AND ANY ANON THAT WANTS TO ABUSE ME,I DEY ON STOP OVER IN LONDON FOR THE DAY,SO I GET YA TIME WELL WELL,I NO WORK TODAY,I WILL SIT BEHIND THIS LAPTOP AND DISS YOUR ASSES OUT.

SO PLEASE LAY THE GRILL STAND I WILL PROVIDE THE MATCHES TO SET THE SHIT ON FIRE WHEN YOU ARE READY.
AWON OLORIBOSHAN GBOGBO.

LEAVE OVERWHELMED ALONE..

Soul said...

Anon...
I don't expect you to be insulted and not insult any one back.
Fight fire with fire.. I can definitely support you on that one.

So you want to destroy her blog. okay I get it.

And yes whilst you were busy tping some comments yesterday, I was talking to her over the phone.
You know some of us actually do know her offline.

I'm not going to go back and forth with the insults with you. there's no need
I did not insult you, and I really am not interested in doing so.. that's why I asked the questions I did.
If you think we are all Mugu's, why are you so concerned about us?

and again...
If you claim she is doing this for the attention, then why are you paying her attention.

Your whole angle has been that you will do what she doesn't want you to do. Well if you calim she wants attention, why are you giving it to her?.

How does that even begin to make sense?.
You've said your piece, you've warned everybody.. fair enough. Let those who have ears.. hear.. and the rest well, why not let them be?.

excessive anon said...

Excessive diva: take your fucking bloody excessive pornographic blog self away from here! bloody shameless asewo like you. oniranu razz youruba bitch with your smelly cunt like fowl yansh!

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@SOUL,u said u spoke to her.please is she okay?i hope all this is just seen as a joke to her.nobody has to have to go through this on ANY level.

its sad because some people dont realise that at the end of the day she is still human and the cyber-bullets will still leave her wondering why anyone would want to sink so low and do this to her.

overwhelmed,please,just let it go.dont mind them.
just keep on doing you okay.

soul is she okay?
please let those of us that love her know how she is doing.

Anonymous said...

All I can say is dat dis one don pass level of joke or entertainment or whateva. Dis na serious wahala. I no know wetin I go believe anymore - dis one just bi new level. Na wa o.

Soul said...

excessive diva..
Bloody hell we've missed you mate!
It's okay.. this particular anon has let a little bit of the wind blow her/him off course.

24 hours man...

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@EXCESIIVE ANON...
how predictable.damn,i had to laugh,i knew you will be lurking around here,i just knew it.

YES I AM A PORNOGRAPHIC PROSTITUTE..but guess what??I LEARNT FROM THE BEST..UR MUM,SHE TAUGHT ME ALL I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT SUCKING COCK.and we practised on your dad.
im shocked his LIMPDICK could have been stiff enough to hold an erection to produce u.

ignorant child,because i speak yoruba well makes me yoruba abi?

sorry o,ENLIGHTENED UNYORUBA BITCH..
omo ajokuta mamomi.
abi na omo deran deran eleyi goro.

my smelly cunt??
nah blood..not divas cunt...

PLEASE COME AT ME WITH SOMETHING THAT WILL HURT..NOT CHILDISH THINGS.

this is soooo obvious..diva likes sex so how do i yap her??
call her a prostitute..

alainishelowo,so i can see you brought yourself here again.if i had been around i would have told overwhelmed that YOU WERE THE EXACT SAME PERSON WHO TRIED TO INFILTRATE MY BLOG BUT I NO GIVE U DAT CHANCE.

AND I AM STILL COMING BACK O NA ONLY TIME FACTOR NO LET ME BLOG AGAIN,SO DONT THINK O U HAVE SUCCEEDED BY RUNNING ME OFF BLOGLAND.

U HAVE A LOOOOOOOOOONG WAY TO GO.

WA DE RUN DOWN LAST LAST NI.

KO DE NI DA FUN BABANLA FADA E.

ASHEWO BANZA NI.

Soul said...

she's fine. Mighty fine.
She found this stuff hilarious.
But I'll let her speak for herself when she manages to tear herself away from the 'distractions' that are around right now :D (if you catch my drift)

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@SOUL..i get ur drift my girl..tell her to enjoy the distraction well well oh and she should take her time to make up for the lost time sef and do things to him to make jenna jameson sef blush..kimor dey enjoy sha.

and its paining some people...
ha ha ha..

oju ti awon ota o..the girl still dey stand kampe...

oya all u anons,go and recongregate and find another person to bully.

Soul said...

excessive.. you see this is what I missed man...
those hot hot Yoruba epe's that you were issuing.. I swear I haven't that stuff in years!..

wondering anon said...

@soul: infact you 'overwhelm' me. you forget that overwhelmed was the one who put up a post titled 'i know', but of cos you were shining ur malu teeth ready to support anything ur dearest overwhelmed liar posts. Double standard all the way eh? Overwhelmed's mouth runs like gutter everday but you did not see it fit to call her to order. and please who are you trying to show wot goes on behind the scenes? abeg who? just like the rest of us, overwhelmed is just a faceless person writing wotever she wants to write here and if she no want make we comment, she knows wot to do abi?
and if you are really talking to her, i will suggest to you that you advise her to seek some help. I bet she has admitted that the anon who outed her knows her becos she has revealed her true name as ADANMA! that is why you are here trying to be moderator abi? of cos you know the anon is not fake becos you have not said so. Overwhelmed is doing the same thing u accuse us of doing in the yellow paw paw blog by insinuating that someone slept with her brother - is that fair? and y lie? you guys have grown to know her anf i bet you feel she's been thru a lot; are you telling me if it's all lies you really would not care about her wellbeing? r u sure you really have a soul?

stuck in my throat o said...

OWNB:abeg, enable your comments moderation. it is getting disgusting in your house... unless of cos u do like the controversy.
Calabar gal: great advice.
Ubong: oh boy! u greedy gan o. U no invite anyone.

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@SOUL..siddon u go enjoy yaself well today.these anons get on my last nerve,coming in here and talking trash.
me i get degree for serious yoruba yaps.cus i fit take style look like butter chick oh,but i WILL throwdwon and go gutter on ANY BITCHS ARSE..atimes u just gotta descend to their levels.thats the only WAY some people understand.
if you blow ig big grammer,they will get instant running stomach.
or can u be telling someone like a yoruba home video actress that "oh you have no iota of sense?"
how she go take understand?

i gotta go dirty and gutter and i will.

awon abirun won sheti bi awo ona ilorin.dem no dey hear word.

hmm..oya anon come oh..come out let us fight now.

Peace Maker said...

Happy Woman's Day all you beautiful People out there.

My Sisters, may we only fight the good fight

excessive anon said...

@ excessive diva: i am so proud you learnt it from my parents, i'm sure your parents will be proud of your dick sucking techniques especially when you practice it on your father with your mum standing by watching and getting turned on. Fucking ponographic prostitute... u wanna try us? ok now go on soun

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

i dont think theres anybody saying that it might or might not be a lie.BUT,i have a serious issue with someone GOING THIS FAR.it is UNFAIR.what if this anon is lying?

have we all realised that at the end of the day apart from those tht talk to themselves..THIS IS A BLOODY BLOG ENVIRONMENT,CYBER WORLD.

the same way some are saying overwhelmed has had us for fools IS THE SAME BLOODY WAY ANON COULD BE MAKING UP STORIES.

people please let us try and be reasonable now.
men.this is beyond me i swear.

wondering anon said...

@ excessive diva: and gutter u shall remain...

Naijadude said...

Its just so freaking annoying and irritating reading about this all. I know I dont have such a tough skin to contain all of this, I would have spared the only attention I can by deleting the comments and blocking anonymous. Isnt it enough for one person to get a life.
I got irritated after reading personal attacks, i said I wont check back on here if she hadn't taken anonymous off.
Heck no! I am not going anywhere, anonymous, YOU GOTTA STOP. I have no time reading all the comments but whatever you are saying, why dont you have a life and stop!
She doesnt have internet now, thats why she is not blogging heck why the explanation? PEOPLE JUST UNDERSTAND ITS HER FREAKING GODDAMN BLOG!!.. DONT READ IF YOU DONT LIKE IT.
Except from Excessive's blog, you wouldnt see me leaving comments on any sex-blog, be it fantasy, fiction or reality. I dont side with the views simple rules do not visit the blog! My theme wouldnt let some ppl visit mine too, agreed, nothing personal, its their opnion. U dont like, stay the good-Lord away from the freaking blog....argggh
People are wearing me out!!

Soul .. Did you get by with it yet? this childish immature erractic behaviour gotta stop, I am so done and fed up with it, why should it have to be personal when someone is trying to find her sanity? why attack her personally? NO I WONT SUGGEST SHE TAKE DOWN THE BLOG OR MODIFY THE ADDRESS, loser will think he/she wins, this loser needs to be dealt with.

Excessive Diva...how now? I don miss you ooh,

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@EXCESSIVE ANON..omo iparun,omo ti oye ki iya fi da eje oshu nu.

U made a mistake oh...WE suck ur dadys dick and ur mum fingers her collapsed cunt.atimes when your dadys dick is misbehaving ur mummy pops him the beautiful blue pill.

sorry unforshunatly for u,my parents are not as wild as yours.

u know ur mummy was the neighbourhood tramp now..even my houseboy and driver baba bashira and obong dipped in her twice..we had to treat them for gono though but hey...

Soul said...

no problem jare.. omo wo iwo gaan wa se re!
even though o o blog mo right now, se o mo wipe mo n wish e ni multiple upon multiple, but mo trust e sha... you go for what you want anytime, on your conditions.
fun won ton ara re..

Aburo dey fine kampe. Mo ti so fun wi pe.. ko fi kinni yi sile fun a little while.. oro po, won de fe ka.. ki won ma a ka lo now.
24 hours na de same tori dem dey knack. nothing new..
threats to send link to posie - nothing.
threats to reveal details - nothing
threats to... warreva.. nothing.

the point is we don hear all the anons story,
the anon wey day canada we don hear,
the one wey dey US chi town holla!
even sef, the one wey dey use roaming T-mobile take login.. we overstand the craziness and we don accept am.
the one wey dey uk dey login from university compurra.. even dat one gaan sef we don hear..
e don do now.....
we just like the blog, leave us mek we dey henjoy am abi?.
We no fight any of you. we just want to enjoy story wey we dey read. e no harm us henceforth e no harm you
why must people try to pour sand in other people's garri.

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@WONDERING ANON..

EGBAMI O..wat is this?

and u shall continue to be POSSESED BY THE VAGABOND SPIRIT THAT WILL MAKE U GO ON WONDERING.

Naijadude said...

Excessive Diva, you know what is so annoying out of the whole deal? there are so many pornographic blogs on blogspot. So many ppl that write about their sexual escapades, include pictures of ppl, why attacking someone that apparently have more experience than you do, just innocently writing about her life? I know her personally I know the life she lives, I swear there are no lies, even if there are some, why fret over it??
Everyone cant be holy, hypocritcal holiness eh??....the simple part of the story is...STOP COMING HERE IF YOU DONT LIKE HER BLOG, DONT LEAVE COMMENTS, JUST GOOOOOOOOOO

Abegi help me tell this oloriburuku ppl ooh, they are wearing me out jare!!!

Naijadude said...

heheheh Soul, I trust you jare. I was just slow on this whole thing ni jare, I don tell the guy long time, I will track down everyone, but she was being non-challant about it.. u even get the one wey dey roam with T-Mobile? I trust you jare
But you know it wouldnt be easy to track now because of this brouhaha, wouldnt have been better had it been we had it for awhile now....
But its freaking annoying and sad someone would waste their time to try and "tarnish" someone? arggggggh

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@SOUL..LOL..wa gbayi mama mi...i had to laugh out loud reading your yoruba..

u know..these people are just providint trips for me here...

it seems that this period is a congregation for anons worldwide..and their meeting point this year is overwhelmeds blog.

abi bawo lo she ri?

me i just dey sit for airport now,dey wait,so i got sooo much time to reply this agberos.
running their mouths like a public tap in oshodi market(a busted one of course)

@NAIJADUDE..i miss u too ojare ore mi..BUT WORK IS A BISH U KNOW...my blog isnt off for life oh..ill be back..HOTTER,WILDER AND FULL OF MORE MISCHIEF..

PERSON WEY NO LIKE AM..CAN SHE KINI O??

EAT MY ARSEHOLE(ESPECIALLY AFTER I FINSIH TAKING A RUNNY SHIT)

EXCESSIVE ANON said...

@excessive diva: is that all you can come up with? you think my dad has a problem with you sucking his dick? at least is your mouth that is giving him pleasure now... ah! who's complaining and if my mama finger im 'collapsed pussy nko@ she need the pleasure now, don't you finger yourself? see trouble o! if my mama give my papa blue pill - is that not a positive thing , forget oh1 viagra is a good thing for people my parents age. Dem need am.
Is shameless whores like you that go about sucking MARRIED old men's 'shrivelled dicks' that should be ashamed of themselves you are cursed, i feel sorry for you. Your pussy has collapsed before you even born one pikin. ASEWO BASTARD LIKE YOU!

Soul said...

wondering anon...
see I can be civil with you if you are civil with me.
but all that stuff at the beginning scrap it.. there's no need... haba now.

You are right Overwhlemed put up a post saying 'I know'.

Saying she knows that so and so was on her blog and specifying that 'so and so' was/is not welcome here.

Well if you are claiming to be the 'so and so' she was referring to, then why are you still here if she said you are not welcome?.
What is the point of being in a place yopu are not wanted.

I'm not sure if you are expressing concern, condeming or indeed admiring her.

you say we all should ask her to seek help.. why becasue of what you have said?. You haven't exactly acted with integrity here..
You've come from nowhere, guns blazing..
saying things which are easily proven to be false.. implying that any and everybody is 'overwhelmed' without realising that many of us actually might know 2 of the players in this game offline.. so even if anything you said was true..
The way you tried to build up your fantasy by including aspects which some of us know to be patently false made everything you say and said turn from panda (almost believable) into dust (nothing)

How can I ask Overwhelmed to seek help, when you have been sitting on this blog for the best part of 24 hours.
she predicted you would log in ever 2 hours and you damn near have been doing that.

overwhelmed might be faceless to you, but she ain't faceless to me or indeed to a number of people who Konw her in real life.

You ask if I have a soul... of course I do.
I'd ask the same question of you, but what's the point.
You never answer anything..
You keep re-iterating what you can do, who needs help.. when they need it, you keep cursing at everybody saying everyone is this is that..
You spent time in a place you a re not welcome trying to destroy it.. for what?.
What is it doing to you. why is it hurting you. when it is healing others.

Did you forget, it HAS been healing others.
Let it go already.. no-one wants to be at logger heads with you.

You have already proven your point.
Those who haven't heard you by now, just don't want to hear.. let them be.

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@EXCESSIVE ANON...O TI WA TOOO PREDICTABLE KILODE??

OMO IYA ASHEWO,notin do you now..
THAT REALLY IS YOUR BEST SHOT?

ME?A SHAMELESS WHORE?

EHN IM A WHORE?SO..AT LEAST IM NOT A CHEAP WHORE LIKE YOU.

OR ARENT YOU ZAINAB ZOBO?
BUY HER TEN NAIRA ZOBO AND SHE WILL SPREAD WIDE...THROW A SMALL WRAPPED ROASTED EPA IN IT AND SHE WILL DO YOUR FRIEND TOO.

OLORIBURUKU,ALAINIRONU ARA GALATIA,

YESS I AM A WHORE,I LOVE TO SUCK COCK,EAT PUSSY,HAVE SEX,AND THEN???

AT LEAST TEN NAIRA ZOBO AND EPA AND GUGURU CANNOT MY OWN TYPE OF WHORE MAKE.

OF COURSE YOU WOLL KNOW ALL ABOUT MARRIED MEN AND THEIR WOMEN ON THE SIDE.

ISNT THAT HOW YOU SURVIVE?RUNS GIRL OSHI,
GLORIFIED PROSTITUE LATILE.

I KNOW YOUR TYPE.ONE OF THOSE THAT GO TO ITALO TO MAKE ENDS MEET SO AS TO FEED THE FAMILY ABI?

MY PUSSY STILL DEY KAMPE OH SINCE YOU ASKED.INFACT I HAD TO TOUCH IT AGAIN SLIGHTLY NOW TO MAKE SURE YOUR OJUJU HASNT FLOWN THROUGH THE COMPUTER(I KNOW U WINCHES OF NOWADAYS OPERATE IN SERIOUS HIGH TECH WAYS)and me i still want my toto to still dey work.

I know you never stayed on your feet long enough in your whole life,(always horizontal arent ya),so i cannot tell you to go and get a job.

moi??cursed??

ha ha ha ha ha ha

sorry oh pastor zainabu onizobo
u will know about curses now,how many deliverance ya wretched mama don take u too?

how many??

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

in tha name of beejeebus! WHATDAFUKRYHELL IS DIS???
ownb... i swia u have to place a curse on dat mothafuka who got ur internet service cut off o! and u have to slap urself twice for not disablin anon. comments LONNNNG time ago!look at this nonsense!
warramess!


P.S
i see some IDIOTS actually believe these anon.s' claims... to these idiots i ask; "ARE U REALLY DAT GULLIBLE? how stupid are u? "

at first i was upset at these low-life-attention-cravin-aint-got-
shit-goin-for-me-in-real-life-so-i
-must-try-ma-hardest-to-overtake-
OWNB's-blog-annonymously-pusies

now i just find this hillarious and sad.

hillarious because when i see mad men on the streets of ajegunle, i must laugh at the things they do for their lack of sensibility.... THAT kind of hillarious
sad because when i see grown adults still believing that santa is real i must shake ma mothafukin head because its too damn shameful and sad... THAT kind of sad

i laugh at these annons... for their desperation
i am sad that some stupid idiots actually eat up their poorly crafted stories... (if u're one of these idiots, u really should be ashamed of yourself)

okay, with all these said,
too all the fukd up too-fukin-shy-and-scared-to-post-with-their-real-blogs-bitches
out there, i say... what goes around, come around.
this girl has done nothin to u...
u will surely get yours


P.S to the tatle taling anons:

believe it or not, i had a dream yesterday
couldnt see your face but knew it was u (funny enough)
u were in a plane crash...
and had to live life brain dead


karma is a bitch
u will surely get yours

Naijadude said...

Ooh no..Soul, dont tell me it is who I think it is? Cos homegirl told me she just had to let him go, maybe he's trying to pay back! arggghhh now I know
On that note, she shld keep blogging and let the fool have a great day, apparently dude needs some attention

Mad-soul-sistah!...How are you now? I hope this anon is not who I think it is ooh...that'd be crazy..

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

@ naijadude:
no baby, it ain him
remember, dat nucca couldnt spell right if he had to... hes almost as illiterate as oshodi market itself.
it ain him... he uses specific words ,... its someone else and this aint a "he" neither
BTW- if it was dat waste of matter who u thought it was, i'd'a called him and had a "lil word" with him lonnnng time

excessive anon said...

@excessive diva: see me see trouble oh! na you dey boast say you be asewo, na you dey boast say u suck my papa dick, y e dey pain you na? Please remain the prostitute that you are and keep sucking dicks and licking pussy at least that counts for an 'honourable profession'. Wetin you want make i do? unfortunately i can't join you in ur profession, so i'll sit at home and stay glued to my computer afterall no be your asewo money dey feed me! Binsh like you!

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@SOUL,NAIJADUDE AND DIARY OF A MADSISTA..i dont know why i have a very strong feeling that this anon(S)is someone who already exists on blogville.i just dont know why.or on the flipside,someone who knows overwhelmed and maybe she had a clash with him/her.
but something is telling me that the major anon pest might be a blogger too.

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

souldasoul...
werrin dey?


excessive diva:
babygirl, u jes got a new fan ;)

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

excessivediva: it definitely is... but the bitches wont admit it because then it'll be obvious that they're fukn cowards


naijadude: i'm so sorry... seems like i've had ur camer for a whole month now! i go bring am soon. se u dey home today? xoxo

EXCESSIVE-DIVA said...

@EXCESSIVE ANON..yes i am a whore,but at least im honest about it.
u this peadophile.at least i screw grown men.what do u do?

SIT BEHIND A SCREEN,READ OVERWHELMEDS BLOG AND INSULT HER ALL THE WHILE FINGERING AND UNDERAGE CHILD DUE TO THE EXCITEMENT.

I KNOW MY TAXES PAY FOR YOUR SORRY ARSE.
i know you were helped to get here, while you were sleeping around yrs ago i and so many others were getting an education , to better our lives .Oh i know all about you EXCESSIVE ANON, lol (there i a story behind that nic too ). there is nothin about you , hopeless wannabe .

HOW SAD ARE YOU INFACT.U CANT EVEN CARVE YOUR OWN IDENTITY ON SOMETHING AS RANDOM AS BLOGLAND..U HAD TO "BORROW" EXCESSIVE ABI.

OLUWA GBOGUN TI AWON TON GBOGUN TIMI..AMIIIIN...

MAY THE GODS OF CHICKEN POX THUNDER YOUR EXISTENCE.

Soul said...

excessive...

You have that feeling.. because you are right.. This person is a 'blogger'. well one of them is.
But it's cool.. by their words and deeds we will know them.

people seem to forget that absolutely NOTHING is hidden online.
Absolutely nothing.

but there is more than one of them sha.. and one talks to itself.
as in types and responds.
It's crazy to see it but dang... my people why now.

You know it's a shame cos this didn't need to happen at all at all.

You know I'm listening to Lauryn Hill right now and she's signing a most appropriate lyric...

"Just because we don't say nothing
doesn't mean that we forgotten
your booty smell rotten
and one day you will be gotten"

steven said...

Anonymouses, so you mean you guys do not sleep, eat, go to the toilet? na wah oh! i have had a good night's rest, gone to work and come back and you guys are still at it! Na wah oh!anyway, I will ask again, WHAT DO YOU WANT? You've already said everything you have to say, what else now? ah ah?

Soul said...

mad soul sista...
wa se re..
I knew you would get all poetic with your shit
tackling morrasucka's
yanking their ingrown dicks
or should I say minutely small clits..
mad soul sista..
you know u the shit right....

Soul said...

dude...

Bawoni.. oko mi atata..
jo pe aburo, so fun wi pe.. oti ya o.chi town ti sa lo. lol

Awon to fe ka.. ti ka to n.
Won ka o su wo n. (jo ba mi translate e dara dara.. se o mo aburo o gbo ede lol)

Waffarian said...

Please, anonymous and friends, like I have explained before, "THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN DO", this is INTERNET, we do not know each other. I have never seen this kind of bitterness before! Please, give it up. It's enough. We have heard, Onb forged stories, etc. Thank you. Its enough. If you all know each other, why not sort it out like civilised human beings? This is too much now!

chainreader said...

Na wa oh!

This isn't even funny. Can someone say mountain and molehill?

Me, I love this blog. That hasn't changed. If that makes me a mugu, as has been insinuated, sue me please, somebody.

Naijadude said...

Egbo iyawo melo ni mo ni now ooh?
Mad soul sistah is asking for her ring.
I win Uzo for Bachelorette, I never buy ring yet
OWNB is trying to serenade me
I am trying to serenade Excessive-Diva
I am asking for Soul's number!!

Egba mi oo...ki ni mase bayi ooh?


Mad Soul sistah....yeah evidence of me not coming out at all, well I dey head downtown today to sch and then run around for some chores, what are you upto?

Soul....that number, na pizza store hin carry me go...LOL so where the correct number?

Naijadude said...

And I get a secret crush on Diamond!! oti tan ooh!

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

lmao i think we should just iggy annon... we should all make the personal individual choice to just iggy its comments on here...
i know it would still talk to itself but... whats faya without fuel?
its kinda hard to argue with yasef if u're sane (but then again, commenting anf then, replyin to ur own comment is said to be the first sign of e-insanity)

anyway, annon(s) i've had a good laugh... keep talkin

lmao i just remembered this osng i like,,,,
it has nothin to do with this ish but i must sing....
keep talkin
talkin bout the diamonds on ma wrist
keep talkin
***mumbles***
keep talkin
***mumbles*** if u talkin bout ma money den dat talkin ain cheap
lmaooooo
i don craze finish


lmao
souldasoul... thanks babygurl
i figured they're bloggers

Diary of a Mad Soulful Sista said...

lmao! chainreader is jokes!
"sue me pls somebody"


oya, i go see u for court!

Soul said...

dude
moti so fu e wi pe u r a stud muffin..
but se o mo pe gbo gbo awon obirin to line up as ur women .. hmmm dem no easy o..
We better put you on some multi vitamins and a new work out.
:D

dude.. u know I didn't think u were serious about the number, considerind the fact that u seem to have taken on many wives hmmph!...
don't worry omo email me now..

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