Thursday, November 23, 2006

Time To Clear My Head

It’s funny… really funny how things happen…


Something seems like a good Idea at the time and you go with it


Only to realize later how much hurt, how much pain you leave in your wake


Anyways I’m not gonna beat a dead dog… it’s happened right?!?!


I didn’t write it… didn’t say it… didn’t think it… but I linked it


Sorry My Jolene… you’ve known me for a while and know that I’d never mean to hurt you ever… I love you and I don’t try to hurt people I love


I know I have without meaning to… I guess by linking to something so hate-filled, I’m in the wrong too


I’ve told you in person that I’m sorry but since everything started on this blog… I’ll say I’m really sorry here too…


It’s Live and Learn Right?!... Live and learn


I really shouldn’t… I really shouldn’t have… but I did


So now I pay the price…


Forgive me babe… you can take how much ever time you need… but I just wanted you to know that I regret it with all my heart…


I love you


{I’ll be out of this for however long… maybe hours, maybe days, maybe weeks, maybe months… maybe forever… I don’t wanna get caught up in any kinda drama and if my actions here is causing hurt to someone I love and respect then blogging be damned… I can vent here but I can vent somewhere else right?!?!}


In the meantime… thanks everybody for every comment, advice, suggestion, every word of encouragement that you’ve ever left on my blog… It’s really really helped me deal and grow as a person.

Be Well

33 comments:

Anonymous said...

are u serious. i've read ur blog and ur amazing whatever ur going thru must be serious.
life doesn't stand still you do live n learn.

Anonymous said...

Ooh no, plz you dont have to do this! I was just shocked! You dont have to!
You know you are my official Jolene! Cant trade that oh!!

angie said...

ONB!!! wat a gwan???
r u saying u r not blogging again???
Abeg oh....
Jolene...pls forgive ONB she didn't mean it oh. i m begging on her behalf...plzzzzz

BabaAlaye said...

What happened? Am i missing something here? I'm late to the gist (as usual).
Can someborry pls tell me what the f**K is going on?????
I know it's got something to do with naijadude.Ehem... See dudu abi what do you call yourself take time o. Make i no arrange area boys for you o.
Oya, you guys kiss and make up kia kia.

Or are you doing a "Black Album" thingy for us? Overwhelmed so ara e o. (Mind yourself). Some of us are addicted to your blog.

Yosh said...

Oh no! :( Not when I just started to romance your page every day! :P

Like seriously, you don't av to leave yo~!

nosa101 said...

No not you, I have already watched Delot leave. haba!!

Anonymous said...

Please dont go.

Please forgive her, dear ND

Anonymous said...

Yo people she called me already and we made up, even hugged and kiss sef, dont ask me what we talked till 6 am o, I surprise say she kon write this later!!!

Miss ONB, It will be really selfish for you to stop blogging all because of this, I totally understand how busy your schedule is and other stuff going on in your life. Could make that known, plz dont stop blogging, we all love you eh!!

Anonymous said...

I wont say i'm a blogger cos i'm not... but thro a friend i started reading your blog including everyone elses and i must say i am impressed. I find myself checking out your blog even at work...hoping you'd have written something new...
In as much as its your choice what you want to do...think it thro' again before you do nothing...then think again before you act ;-)

mphahlele said...

WHATTTTTTT????? WHAT HAPPENED??? YOU ARE TAKING A BREAK!? b.b.b.b.b.but i just found you!

her jolene abeg na tell her to come back!

Uzo said...

LOL. Talk to me. Let aunty Uzo help....

Beautifully Human said...

dear overwhelmed,
you do what you think is best under the circumstances, ok?

Vera Ezimora said...

*hisses* Overwhelmed, go o! GO!! At least, that will be one less home breaker 2 deal with. When you're supposed 2 run, you won't run, and now, you wan run ehn? Run o! And don't lemme catch up with u... or else!

Hehehehe.

Anyways, y'll betta deal with this issue. The kid that wrote it is just that... a kid. I mean, common, he's 16! Wetin him know sef? He still has breast milk on his breathe jare.

nosa101 said...

@Vera
Abeg stop that joke o

Anonymous said...

funny thing does anybody realize broking up haas been a trend goin on resently but am sure thing will work out for aone remember christmas/ new years is round the corner mo friends mo presents n good times nosa is a punk pranksta lookin 4 som luv its all good girl keep em post comin

Anonymous said...

Leave..GO!!

By the time I come to Canada and kick your ass, ori e ma pe daaaada!!!
Nonsense (LOL, I hope you're Yoruba, otherwise this shit won't make NO damn sesne to ya!! LOL)

Abby said...

Hey dont leave, we love ur blog so much!

TP said...

Eh, Overwhelmed you are leaving blogsville? Why?I don't understand. Don't go...

The Mistress said...

I read that link to the homophobes blog and of course after a few sentences, I had to get the fuck out of there. Don't you just LOVE that big red X to your upper right? :-) I DO!!!!!!!

No fault to you for linking to it though. You shouldn't go into "blogger exile" over that honey!

ineka said...

Hold up! Where the fok are you going to? I just discovered you thanks to Bella Naija and you wanna run??
You better get your ass back here!!

NaijaBloke said...

Iro ni o ... Sweetheart u r leaving to go where ...Oya talk to papa ..who made u mad... is it the issue with Vera ...we can work this out now ..lets make it work now ...U know am still hot for u ..LOL


Seriously if na play make u stop am o ..

Anonymous said...

jolene, make una forgive the gial ehn...abeg ehn...biko....lol

Anonymous said...

OMG, what's all the madness about u leaving and stuff?Just because u linked somthing doesn't mean u believe it ,i'm sure u just wanted us to see that thier still stupid MF'ers around and i'm sure u're friend knows that as well since he's u're Jolene.But if u're serious about leaving come by my page one last time and leave an email address or somthing(wud leave mine but don't know if u're gone already then it'll be piontless)wierd but true i think me and u r meant to be good friends .Keep in touch blogger buddy.

Anonymous said...

HOLY MAKOSSA (In your own words)
What Am I Supposed to you...I must be missing something o. Hope everything works out wll..I kinda think its the thingyou wre referring to about a once close friend. ONB please come back...we miss you seriously!
I need a dose of ONB!
Take care girl!

ChiefO said...

me i wont ask why u want to leave o. my own is that so long u'll tell us where u are going so we can stalk gate crash and join u there, i am all for ur going. plus who would tell us about "all the shades of sexy" when u are gone. abi is it vera, i'll give u her home address and watever. we gonn jump her ass for trying to take NB and ur jolene at the same time.

but seriously even if u'll leave ehnnn, (i'll quote u one this one,) " I’m not playing… you know what… if you wanna break up no problem… but before you do… then you have to restore the enjoyment you have taken out of my coochie…"

meaning even if u'll leave, u have to restore our sane minds back to their insane states o, bcos b4 some people started reading ur blog ehnnn their minds where running circles around them. i go further by quoting you again,

"Yes… you have to… because as a lady there’s a certain percentage of sweetness in our pussy… and for the past 4 months you’ve been feasting and delighting and taking all the sweetness out… so imagine the next guy who comes along… he’ll only have limited enjoyment… and that’s unfair to him… so the minute you can restore my sweetness… then we can go our separate ways"

meaning, your blog has tantalized a lot of people in the short long time they've known ur blog and if u take out the tantalizer from their daily activities na wahala u go cause o.

and as if thats not enough you made us all go buy our outfit for ur wedding where celine dion and awilo longonba would have a duet. so if u dont mind, I NEED A REFUND and u'll surely hear from my lawyer (if u dnt back down on ur silly decision) cos of the cruel and unusual purnishment u are puttung us throw. CLASS ACTION LAW SUIT BABE.

ChiefO said...

damn too much talk, overwhelmed u see what u have caused. doctor said thats the first symthom of lackofoverwhelmeditis (overwhelmed deficiency)

chainreader said...

"don't leave....
don't leave me, girl,
please stay with me tonight........"


now you've got me singing to you!
abeg, no joke this kin joke again. e no funny!

ChiefO said...

overwhelmed i came back to check if u've responded to all these not so nice peoples cries, but u havent. i know u are always quick to respond, i know u are reading all these comments. in short i can see u as u read this thing.(i got fiber optic vision) but if u no wan make i use google search for u ehnn. just come in here and post a message. even if na one alphabetic sentence paragraph encyclopedia textbook (see bcos of u i'm speaking big big oyinbo) just say somn, i can even supply u with THE NEW AWILO LONGOMBA CD i got sef. all for u!

angie said...

OWNB so u dey serious oh. This babe u strong oh!!!
i know u r seeing all our comments.
At least reply even if its just ur name that shows, so we can know u r alrite....wat abt ur mommy's posts???

Ladé said...

whatever youre going thru, all the best. your blog will be missed:(

chainreader said...

abeg, oh! don't be telling her she'll be missed like she is going somewhere! you can't go! we won't let you.
emmm... that was pleading, in a way.

do stay. blogsville won't be the same without crazy ole you.!

36 INCHES OF BROWN LEGS said...

buy why??? just when i thought i had a new blog friend. if na joke stop ma o!!!!!

TaureanMinx said...

Hey ONB, I will go on hunger strike oh!!! Hope you resolve the issues and come back, if not send a personal note through my photoblog and lets keep in touch. Take Care